I think like an independent person. This is the difference.
Countries do not behave like individual friends but have "interests." China benefits from having access to Gwadar and other projects.
China is allowed to extract natural resources in Balochistan. Chinese companies are interested in making profits.
So what is the output of CPEC? Has it addressed Pakistani economic woes? Pakistan has a significant trade deficit with China. Any thought given to this problem?
US is important for Pakistan in economic terms. 80+ American companies provide job opportunities to locals in Pakistan. Pakistani goods and services have demand in American markets and have created a trade surplus. Pakistani entrepreneurs can use American platforms to do business or freelancing. When Pakistan's economy is on the brink, IMF provides relief. Pakistan's economy would have collapsed otherwise.
No country will bankroll Pakistan for indefinite period. Pakistan must learn to stand on its own feet.
There is a significant room for American investments in Pakistan but situation on the ground is not conducive. Anti-American sentiments cultivated by politicians are not helpful.
Foreign delegations should be allowed to visit Gwadar because it is not a military installation but a city that is supposed to be an economic hub of the country. Pakistan should open Gwadar to locals and global trade. Allow other countries to invest in Gwadar as well. This is how you create an economic hub. But if Gwadar is sold to China then this is another story.
Why WE care about US dealings with India? This is something that WE do not get to decide. India is a big market that US wants to tap for its benefit. India also has border dispute with China so US would want to sell its arms to India. This is all about finding and creating business opportunities. Not just the US but other countries want to tap Indian markets as well.
Mostly Pakistani think on the lines of bloc politics. Create this bloc or that bloc. Pakistani are very eager to transform the country into North Korea 2.0 for China.