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Husbands should be allowed to beat their wives??!?!
Only "lightly"
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Husbands should be allowed to beat their wives??!?!
All these statements are random picks by Media men inorder to generate spicy work for sake of ratings. Taken completely out of context, words & meanings twisted and too much lime light on one less important statement while important ones are ignored deliberately.The bias here probably isn't of the journalist, more likely your own bias to excuse any comment as long as it qualifies as vaguely religious.
As for the statements themselves, they're at the very least unnecessary. Stupid perhaps not. Number 9 especially has no place in our society.
Husbands should be allowed to beat their wives??!?!
Yup, but Last resort when all other available options rule out and several conditions are properly met.So husbands should be allowed to beat their wife's? Come on man... How is that even right?
This list is heavily populated by baboons
All these statements are random picks by Media men inorder to generate spicy work for sake of ratings. Taken completely out of context, words & meanings twisted and too much lime light on one less important statement while important ones are ignored deliberately.
E.g, No9. We all know that ''Mullahs demands Husband rights to beat the hell out of their wives'' but do you know about rest 50+ recommendations they made in same publications related to Woman Right bill?
I bet you cannot even recall 10 of them, why bcoz Media never discussed them in first place. This is how things work in a illusionised society of ''Free Media''
This is exactly what I am asking, why the president is being called stupid for saying what is right ?If you or I said it, it wouldn't matter. Coming from the President of Pakistan, it is a stupid quote, if not stupid it ought to maybe bother you that your president concerns himself with petty things such as this. Nevermind his actual opinion.
I have already stated that he is a desi-liberal and his intentions dont comply with the title. He is not evaluating 10 most stupid things said by politicians rather most of the time he is trying to ridicule things said at national which are even remotely connected to religion.Please tell us the intentions of the author, you already dismissed him as a desi-liberal for each point where something remotely religious was the subject of ridicule. So, what's his intention as hinted at in the part in bold?
Yar where did I said that he has said no such thing ? Or did I said that he was misinterpreted by you or the author ? Or anything about that the reaction was wrong ? Please read my post again, please. You surely misread my whole message. I dont know why.So are you saying the CII chairman said no such thing about wife beating? That he was misinterpreted by the author, myself and others? Or that he said something along those lines but our reaction was somehow wrong? (This one you'll need to explain)
Or is it that it's debatable when it comes Islamic guidance and therefore it would be wrong to include his quote on the list? In which case I already addressed the issue in the previous post. (see below)
This is exactly what I am asking, why the president is being called stupid for saying what is right ?
I have already stated that he is a desi-liberal and his intentions dont comply with the title. He is not evaluating 10 most stupid things said by politicians rather most of the time he is trying to ridicule things said at national which are even remotely connected to religion.
Yar where did I said that he has said no such thing ? Or did I said that he was misinterpreted by you or the author ? Or anything about that the reaction was wrong ? Please read my post again, please. You surely misread my whole message. I dont know why.
The debate is about the point which CII chairman said, not about what is mentioned in the Quran. Because the religious ruling regarding physical punishment of the wife is quite logical and different from what Maulana Sherani said or what media heard.
These were the most funny lol they're complete idiots man. Ya mere Allah again we're going to have a debate whether beating wife is ok or not khuda ka khof karo Musalmano!
There is always another option, I always regret to say this but if things become so bad sometimes divorce is the best thing to do.Yup, but Last resort when all other available options rule out and several conditions are properly met.
If the leaders them self are uneducated then they don't deserve to be leaders. And people who follow them are equally crazy... Just like the political joke in the country, I don't understand how these people still have followings...because they are husbands ...isn't that clear enough...what world do you live in ..... On serious note leaders don't make statements out of thin air...there is a following who still believe in this sh1t....Husbands beating their wives is a reality and a right...thus such statements raise no eyebrows there...Unfortunately this is a sad truth
all those desi americans if you have problem with 9 please read surah nisa verse 34. i wrote about it in some thread when that mulvi said so and i dont have time to explain this to educated jahils here. read yourself and if you disagree go and argue with the ONE who sent that book. bye
1,4,5 and 9
dear i really know what it means . i talked about it when that mulvi gave that ruling. the ignorant people made fun of the mulvi and actually they were making fun of Quran and they didnt even know what's written in Quran. thanks to you for elaborating the ruling rather then just laughing about it as most of the people do here. people dont even know the diference between something recommended or allowed as last resort. A muslim can even eat pig as a last resort when he doesnt get anything else to eat and is in danger of losing his life.This is the verse that you mentioned
"Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand."
Ref: https://quran.com/4/34
But there are other translations as well
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). Regarding the woman who is guilty of lewd, or indecent behavior, admonish her (if she continues in this indecency then), stop sharing her bed (if she still continues doing this lewd behavior, then), [set forth for her the clear meaning of either straighten up or else we are finished and when she returns to proper behavior take up sharing the bed with her again], but if she returns in obedience (to proper behavior and conduct) then seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great.”
Ref: http://www.islamtomorrow.com/articles/women_treatment.htm
The above link also provides you an explanation of the verse.
So even if we take the first translation as more accurate, even then the verse gives you conditions which i have listed below for all to understand.
1. Men are in charge of women ( their wives ) because they provide for her
So if a husband doesn't provide he is not in charge
2. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard.
The women need to guard their modesty while he is away
3. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance
what classifies arrogance? so if we literally take arrogance as the word then if she isn't arrogant than the condition isn't meet. But if we take the previous part of the verse as reference then it could mean that she is not guarding her modesty.
4. [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them
So you can't just strike her, first you need to give them advise, then sleep separately in different beds and if she still doesn't mend her ways then you can strike her. But question here arises, how hard are you allowed to strike? and what is actually considered a strike? Is pinching considered a strike?
So in conclusion and in short, a husband can only strike a wife if she has not been protecting her modesty and the husband has already taken steps for her to mend her ways.
Hope this helps