To all the married men

[Manticore]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

 

[Manticore]

It is important to not put on a show or pretense while wooing your future wife.

It is also important to set expectations early and not drastically change your life post marriage.

Allow your wife space, and reserve your own.

Then both of you can be happy.

She a fat hen and you a proud ****.

 

[VCheng]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

 

[Manticore]

vcheng sahib , need your pearls of wisdom.. dont sell your experience short

 

[VCheng]

 

[vsdoc]

I never said anything like this.

Am being framed. I swear.

 

[third eye]

If men behaved after marriage the way they behaved before marriage, half the divorces would not take place.

..on the other hand..

If women behaved before marriage the way they behave after marriage , half the marriages would not take place !

 

[!eon]

Height of bias. Only married men have been invited in front of all ladies. Where is equality of genders ?

 

[Manticore]

life is full of sadistic depressive outlook... i get it

 

[VCheng]

life is full of sadistic depressive outlook... i get it

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

Well one of the default rules seems to be..
"What's mine is yours...and what's yours is yours"

However another implied rule:
"I can drive your car...but you can't drive mine..unless I'm dead"

 

[vsdoc]

If men behaved after marriage the way they behaved before marriage, half the divorces would not take place.

Most important golden rule.

Most men become ballless uncles way before their time.

Sorry for the brutal honesty.

 

[T90TankGuy]

Most important golden rule.

Most men become ballless uncles way before their time.

Sorry for the brutal honesty.

How true !!!! lot of people get scared of me but i am a bhigi billi at home.

As to advice , after ten yrs all i can say is dont expect anything from your spouse , accept them as they are and shut up and do what the wife says.

 

[Manticore]

any more golden rules?

is there some divorce lawyer here, stating the top reason why he earns his bread and butter in his profession?

 

[VCheng]

any more golden rules?

is there some divorce lawyer here, stating the top reason why he earns his bread and butter in his profession?