First up, Thanks T-Faz for a soulful piece, which shows gut wrentching concern for one's homeland... I am sure, things will turn to good someday...
Nicely articulated points Developereo... Hailing from Jammmu and Kashmir (the north western part, which is more closer to a big Pakistani city than Jammu and we did have a better reception of PTV till a decade back), my 2 cents on what you said...
That is the problem. It is a cycle and, with Kashmir pending, it will continue.
Nehru and his daughter Indira.
You are spot on... It's a cycle and someone has to bite the bullet and say 'hey, ok... I will hold back and let's talk'... I do believe that Manmohan Singh can do that and should do that, but i am not sure if the current government in Pakistan is the best for that kind of a conversation to start... Notwithstanding that, we should talk and more CBMs... The cycle must be broken decisively without much of name calling and finger pointing and transparency will follow slowly...
I meant India does not want anyone questioning it's supremacy in south Asia. I agree that Pakistan will be hard pressed to match India's economy but there is no reason why it can't try. Size doesn't mean anything: look at Japan, Germany and, of course, the US itself.
Economically, i don't think it ever was or will be India vs. Pakistan... Yes, the government wants to flex its muscle as a superpower. But, i don't think Pakistan is a threat or treated as a threat there... You give a beautiful example of japan and Germany... The problem is of Mindset... Both of these economies wanted to removed the cursed history of WWII and bent their back to slug it out... They also must have had scores to settle, sore points (e.g. seperation of Austria from germany or demilitarization of japan for some time), but the still opted to focus their energies on getting a better life and look where they are... The problem I see is... Will the current environment in Pakistan and over engagement in Militancy, US and India ever let that happen?
That is the important factor. India is a darling of the West and it is getting drunk on all the attention, which makes it less interested in regional peace. India believes it can live with hostile neighbors at home as long as it is liked by the big players overseas.
Well, that's the part where India plays both sides. Smile up front and dagger in the other hand. Despite all these diplomatic overtures, India has never relented in its other attacks mentioned earlier.
Like you mentioned, there is a complete lack of trust on both sides.
That 'solution' was to make the LoC permanent, which is what India wants anyway. It completely ignores the wish of the Kashmiri people themselves. Musharraf basically tried to commit treason.
Well, you just articulated my point. India is of the opinion that it doesn't need anything from Pakistan, so it doesn't need peace.
Being from Jammu and Kashmnir, I do believe that letting LOC remain and allowing free movement of goods and people between both places will be the best possible start and is the only peaceful option (I do believe that a military option is just not feasible) and we can move from there... I think both the countries did come closer to that kind of an arrangement, but the efforts were skittled by vested interests on both sides... Both sides need a stronger (read lesser reliant of coalition) governments and I am reasonably sure that you will see lots of progress on that front... with this, you will see both India and Pakistan relenting on diplomatic level attacks (which you highlighted) and hopefully trust will start to build up... You will agree that what was destroyed over generations can not heal back in a day... Today, any Indian politician who raises a hand of friendship with pakistan is ridiculed based on the past experience and like you said... that chain has to be broken somewhere...
I beg to disagree with the point that India is on a high horse of the kind that it does not want to make peace with Pakistan... India knows that if this one issues can be resolved (say over the next 1 or 2 decades), we can simply go full throttle behind our economic aspirations... I don't think that a PM like MMS will think otherwise... It's the tons of old baggage which pulls us back...
However, i do have another postulation... If and when (hopefully sooner than later), Pakistan returns back to a path of economic progress, where education and infrastructure will get serious importance, I do believe that from that side of the border the support for making peace with India will increase as the society at large with further appreciate the importance of safe twins... Obviously, India will also have to get it's own house in order with clear priority of finding a peace in eastern border, which I am sure is pretty quickly achievable...
At the end of it, i'd like to rephrase someone from this thread, we are "naturally conjoined twins" and at peace we can be world beaters individually and together as well... Pakistan is going through a serious turmoil (not that we don't have our share of scandals or project delays due to Govt. etc, but the scale in Pakistan is of a much higher magnitude) and it will serve India best, if we can contribute towards helping them in that cause... anyone thinking otherwise is either thinking either based on past experiences or is simply not being logical... and i will like to conclude by saying that, if we ever make peace, we will be much better partners than US can ever be... Atleast, I believe that!