By our people if you mean Kashmiri's , than they are not your people .. they never were and never will be your people cause they hate you, they want you go back , thousands of Kashmiri's died because they want you get the F out , and thousands of Kashmiri's still struggling .
As for your second Part, Pakistan is not the one who promise to give Referendum to Kashmiri people , You are not giving anything to Pakistan you are giving Kashmiri people right to decide . What you fear is that Kashmiri's will vote to join Pakistan, and you want to keep Kashmir as leverage against Pakistan, your military wants to keep Kashmir so they can extract Billions of dollars from Indian Govt in the name of holding/Maintaining peace in Kashmir . but for that Indians will and are paying the price , over the 7 decades nothing change , Thousands and thousands of Kashmiri's still hate you and your Govt and want their rights back . The sooner we solve the problem the better .
So basically you have no Argument .. hence you go banana's , Trust me India will feel and pay the price of this occupation , actually just look at the numbers of Soldiers that died in Kashmir , and for what ? to keep a Occupation . Keep Kashmir as long as you can hold it, because the coming Generations will be even more ruthless in their actions against the IA forces, and in return you will kill more Kashmiri's and hence the circle will go on . If your Govt don't want dialog over Kashmir it means your Govt don't give a F about their Soldiers and they are just pawns who are sent to a place where everyone hates them just to occupy and die .