This Pakistani Girl Says She Would Allow Her Husband To Have 3 Wives

[Verve]

This thread is hilarious, but seriously, each wife needs a separate home and days must be split between wives. Most of all, we must be fair to all wives.

In Pakistan, most men who talk about multiple wives, are doing it merely for the comedic factor. Women also joke about it too with their husbands.

Islam allows it, so we cannot say it is not allowed.

In my personal experience, I have seen Arabs and Africans manage multiple wives quite well, but never a Pakistani. Just an observation.

Usually the second wife makes the husband divorce the first one. Then the third wife has him divorce the second. etc. They usually cannot keep two wives at the same time for longer than a few months.

One Pakistani auntie who was a victim of such an uncle said, "Koi mard to sirf shadiyan karne ke liya dunya mein aate hain."

If I could financially afford 2nd 3rd 4th satisfying the above conditions of separate homes + days split etc, I would not hesitate! 4 days for 4 wives (& children), 2 days for all other stuff and 1 solo day for my sanity ..

 

[Goenitz]

This thread is hilarious, but seriously, each wife needs a separate home and days must be split between wives. Most of all, we must be fair to all wives.

In Pakistan, most men who talk about multiple wives, are doing it merely for the comedic factor. Women also joke about it too with their husbands.

Islam allows it, so we cannot say it is not allowed.

In my personal experience, I have seen Arabs and Africans manage multiple wives quite well, but never a Pakistani. Just an observation.

Usually the second wife makes the husband divorce the first one. Then the third wife has him divorce the second. etc. They usually cannot keep two wives at the same time for longer than a few months.

One Pakistani auntie who was a victim of such an uncle said, "Koi mard to sirf shadiyan karne ke liya dunya mein aate hain."

sab dhoka ha.. she will take back her words after the first one. Anyway, every man is fond of 4 marriages, which is true.

 

[Goenitz]

If I could financially afford 2nd 3rd 4th satisfying the above conditions of separate homes + days split, I would not hesitate! 4 days for 4 wives (& children), 2 days for all other stuff and 1 solo day for my sanity ..

You should buy the 5th home. Just to be safe side from all the mess. and spend alone, quality time there. like playing video games

 

[Verve]

You should buy the 5th home. Just to be safe side from all the mess. and spend alone, quality time there. like playing video games

That's a given! Although I am most likely to do the days split in batches and take a longer holiday instead of one day per week respite ...

Anyway, every man is fond of 4 marriages, which is true.

Desire for this fitnah (not the urdu one, but the arabic one meaning Test) is built-in!

 

[fitpOsitive]

In this economy? Good luck to boys who dream of it

And good luck to woman who still think that every woman can get a dedicated husband.
There are much more women than men.

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

If I could financially afford 2nd 3rd 4th satisfying the above conditions of separate homes + days split etc, I would not hesitate! 4 days for 4 wives (& children), 2 days for all other stuff and 1 solo day for my sanity ..

Lol. Sounds like a plan.

I once had this grand plan of creating a ninja army, where my four wives would be commanders, and the kids would be soldiers. Needless to say, I was unmarried then, lol.

I began to admire our bozorg who had 7-9 kids easily and some of whom even lived in the gau. Simply amazing.

sab dhoka ha.. she will take back her words after the first one. Anyway, every man is fond of 4 marriages, which is true.

I must be reading too much Heer Ranjha.... lol.

 

[Verve]

once had this grand plan of creating a ninja army, where my four wives would be commanders, and the kids would be soldiers. Needless to say, I was unmarried then, lol.

What exactly was your age when such wisdom was flowing out?

 

[Verve]

Lol. Sounds like a plan.

This plan has been dharbdhoosed! On Plan B or is it C now ... can't remember ..

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

What exactly was your age when such wisdom was flowing out?

High school, ofcourse.

 

[Mujahid Memon]

This thread is hilarious, but seriously, each wife needs a separate home and days must be split between wives. Most of all, we must be fair to all wives.

In Pakistan, most men who talk about multiple wives, are doing it merely for the comedic factor. Women also joke about it too with their husbands.

Islam allows it, so we cannot say it is not allowed.

In my personal experience, I have seen Arabs and Africans manage multiple wives quite well, but never a Pakistani. Just an observation.

Usually the second wife makes the husband divorce the first one. Then the third wife has him divorce the second. etc. They usually cannot keep two wives at the same time for longer than a few months.

One Pakistani auntie who was a victim of such an uncle said, "Koi mard to sirf shadiyan karne ke liya dunya mein aate hain."

Although Islam allows second marriage under strict conditions but Islam don't emphasize it. On the other hand Islam emphasize and encourage doing Nikah instead of not doing it.

What I meant to say is that if female population is significantly higher than male population (as was the case in ancient times because of too much men dying in wars etc) only then more than one marriage should be encouraged but since now male/female population ratio is equal then more than one marriage should not be encouraged otherwise a lot of men will be deprived of more important ritual which is Nikah itself.

Suppose there are 10 people in a town, 5 men and 5 women. Suppose if two of the men are more capable/rich and they marry 2 women each, third one marries the remaining one woman. Now the two men are left without any woman to marry so basically they are deprived of their right of Nikah.