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Tell me how to deal with the hijabi teachers who keep shoving their conservatism down my throat ?

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Look OP,
It is not right for your teacher to judge you and have this mean attitude towards you because your lack of hijab but you need to ask yourself a few questions as well.
Firstly, ask yourself that are you a Muslim? If yes, then what it means for you to be a Muslim? Do you love Allah dearly and what it means for you to love Him?
If you are a Muslim and love Allah dearly, then know that your relationship with Him should be based on submission and humility. How can we love Allah and reject His commandment at the same time? Just count the blessings He has bestowed on you, just ponder that how little He is asking in return for His favors and on top of that He is offering an everlasting Jannah for the little you'll try to give Him back. Allah loves you dearly, He created you alone and He knows what's best for your survival, happiness and joy in this life and in the next. Once you'll come to terms with these realities then your heart will open for His commandments. You will start to feel the real joy in submitting to Him.
Hijab or Pardah is something Allah has made compulsory in the Quran for the Muslim women owing to their honor, beauty and vulnerability. Don't let other fool you that your liberation lies in stripping of your clothing. Have confidence in Allah and put your trust in Him. If all the world gathers to tell you that Hijab is evil, it should be enough for you that Hijab is something Allah wants you to embrace. You have to choose between Allah vs society and your desires. At the end of the day choice is yours. None can force you.
here comes the Mullah brigade

Hi ,
I belong to a conservative area and I study in a Co education education institute and here's a female Teacger that keeps eyeing on me because of my appearance . All other girls wear hijab or daupatta but I don't wear it in class and I always come there with open hair and little to good makeup . Other than that , I donot have any flirting or unprofessional attitude to male students or teachers , I'm the most outspoken about my views in class , always doing my assignment on time nd I'm regular too .. but this teacher's stares and judgements are bothering me . She always find chance to give lecture on hijab and point on me that I donot wear hijab and always looking at me with dubious eyes when I'm on phone .
Once I told her in the face that my not doing hijab has nothing to do with my education and for me , religion is my personal matter . But she is still keeping pointing . I hate this all . I don't want to be disrespectful to her , I don't like this pin pointing . What to do .
go tell her to stay at home and take care of her children, according to "her" versions of Islam, a woman is not allowed to step out of her home.

and never and I mean NEVER leave your personality
no matter what she of anyone else says
you must be on your guard and have a strong will, because when something is repeated to often, then the person starts to accept it, that is the strategy she and some other posters here are using, you must have a strong WILL to overcome this
 
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I don't wanna waste my youth in covered clothes .
Elaborate this point plz.
I being a male with good body posture has never worn T-Shirt in my work place, instead I prefer slightly lose full arm dress shirt with dress pent. And there are majority of female colleagues around me or military officers.
When you work at a certain work place, you have to make few compromises for long term benefits. If you want to 'enjoy your youth', then don't complain if others do the same.
 
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گر تم شرم نہ کرو تو پھر جو مرضی کرو - مفہوم حدیث
Don't you think its a troll thread?
I mean, arguments raised by OP are too naive, particularly for a 'working lady'.
 
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here comes the Mullah brigade


go tell her to stay at home and take care of her children, according to "her" versions of Islam, a woman is not allowed to step out of her home.

and never and I mean NEVER leave your personality
no matter what she of anyone else says
you must be on your guard and have a strong will, because when something is repeated to often, then the person starts to accept it, that is the strategy she and some other posters here are using, you must have a strong WILL to overcome this

Who are you as a man telling her what to do or wear.

Remember me?
 
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I don't wanna do hijab cause I don't feel comfortable , I don't wanna waste my youth in covered clothes .
Wow First time in my life,i have come to know that,clothing has to do something with wastage of Youth:angel:

گر تم شرم نہ کرو تو پھر جو مرضی کرو - مفہوم حدیث

Don't you think its a troll thread?
I mean, arguments raised by OP are too naive, particularly for a 'working lady'.
It is,she is doing it on purpose,rest in Uni no Professor has any time for such bullshit,because there are too many shitters around.
 
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