Sir i can tell you this with confidence that the Army is not the one who is calling the shots on vital policies and decisions. No doubt that the (Army's)
danda is at work behind the scenes but then the intensity is exactly at the level that is merely required, nothing more, nothing less, that is to say, nor it is sitting idle and just watching the country going down the whirlpool, neither does it intervene when it comes to policy making. Yes, it's advice (when sought or OTHERWISE) is absolutely there where required, but then it does not pull the strings as it has been in the past with it's tools like the ISI or building up pressure inside the cooker. May be i can should that the Army is 'playing it cool' this time
But then you are also right that the fault lies with the perception, but then who makes the perception? It is made by the guys like you and me (atleast we do that when it comes to PDF, atleast), people who write columns with flowery english and the guys who come on tv and shout out loud whatever suites their politics.
So, we need to correct these people, the rest would automatically follow. But unfortunately there are some 'intellectuals' who, despite of their superior understanding and knowledge (deliberately or unwittingly) fails the grasp over issues. These, sir, are the guys we should be worried the most about!!