It is ridiculous to compare Pakistan with India - Pakistan is somewhat trivial in comparison and the only interest India has in Pakistan has been to keep the latter's cross border terrorism in check.
Most India defence are Chinese oriented, including their partnership with the USA.
The bharati state obsession with CPEC, Balochistan, support for terrorism in FATA, Karachi, etc says otherwise. This is at the state level, forget the public. The bharati public obsession is at another level can be noticed from over the internet and the bharatis one interacts with in the public.
Let's cut the bullsh*t about no one in India caring about Pakistan or hating ordinary Pakistanis. The amount of hate I see from India when it comes to anything and everything Pakistan is through the stratosphere. Scratch that, it's actually into another solar system. The hate I see when it comes to cricket (calling "karma" when Pakistani cricketers were in an earthquake recently in New Zealand), Pakistan's economy and the itching for it to go back to $0 (you can see this based on most bharati posts in the economy forum), the obvious lack of excitement due to less terrorism in Pakistan, etc, pouncing on any negative news on Pakistan. Most of this has nothing to do with the Indian public. The obsession that one sees from Indians towards Pakistan is in another solar system. It's worse than anything I have seen between any other two countries.
Based on what you see in Indian politics, the media and from Indian population in general, it is quite obvious they want nothing less than Pakistan disappeared from the map and any trace of Pakistan gone from history. They are pissed off that a thing called Pakistan even exists today. Most Indians appear to be salivating over the prospect of a full scale war or a separated Balochistan and wanted it yesterday. This is from ordinary bharatis, not the worst hatemonger bharatis. You do not see the same kind of rhetoric between other countries even if they are allegedly interfering in each other's affairs. The hate from India is one of a kind and doesn't exist between any two other countries, no matter how bad they hate each other.