Self Improvement thread

[osama zafar]

@Horus could you please tell me how to open my own thread and please elaborate so i can understand.

 

[Biplab Bijay]

most males in the world presently don't know how to dress, groom and speak... my tips to be a gentleman...

- t-shirts should never be worn on the outside... t-shirts ( like jockey ) should always be worn under the shirt.
- grow hair and comb neatly.
- never talk fast... you will be perceived as cunning.
- never use f-words... you will not be seen as gentlemanly.
- never ride a motorcycle ( especially in india )... you will always remain in middle class poverty.
- money is facility, not necessity... those who save money will remain poor.
- never be constantly on the cell phone... you will look ordinary and silly.
- arrange gatherings for discussions and talk for hours over tea... you and your friends will improve your social standing.
- be flirty with the ladies... but never talk like a college boy... be like a real man... mature.
- never play video games... if you like fighting, join a socialist group... or go to syria and fight alongside the syrian military.
- never talk like a goon, especially when in a group.
- never wear flashy clothes or flashy watches... never wear pants which are orange or green or red... looks stupid...
- never keep twenty credit cards... keep one atm card and some cash.
- never be seen in cafes which are frequented by college boys... go drink tea in mature places, even if they are expensive.
- don't be brain-washed by mainstream media... socialism is good, become a socialist.
- never be in jobs... resign from job and start business.
- be confident in starting conversation with strangers... and smile.

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- if you must be in job then take leadership... start an employees union.
- shoes must be dark and polished.
- color-coordinate your clothes.
- be kind and gentleman... never rough.
- be fair... and talk to all economic classes the same gentle way.
- give full attention to those you are talking to.
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@KingMamba what do you think??

@Indos @levina @Spring Onion @Marshmallow what do you think of my tips above??

I have done everything except that gathering tea party thing. Except that I do everything.

 

[Spring Onion]

most males in the world presently don't know how to dress, groom and speak... my tips to be a gentleman...

- t-shirts should never be worn on the outside... t-shirts ( like jockey ) should always be worn under the shirt.
- grow hair and comb neatly.
- never talk fast... you will be perceived as cunning.
- never use f-words... you will not be seen as gentlemanly.
- never ride a motorcycle ( especially in india )... you will always remain in middle class poverty.
- money is facility, not necessity... those who save money will remain poor.
- never be constantly on the cell phone... you will look ordinary and silly.
- arrange gatherings for discussions and talk for hours over tea... you and your friends will improve your social standing.
- be flirty with the ladies... but never talk like a college boy... be like a real man... mature.
- never play video games... if you like fighting, join a socialist group... or go to syria and fight alongside the syrian military.
- never talk like a goon, especially when in a group.
- never wear flashy clothes or flashy watches... never wear pants which are orange or green or red... looks stupid...
- never keep twenty credit cards... keep one atm card and some cash.
- never be seen in cafes which are frequented by college boys... go drink tea in mature places, even if they are expensive.
- don't be brain-washed by mainstream media... socialism is good, become a socialist.
- never be in jobs... resign from job and start business.
- be confident in starting conversation with strangers... and smile.

//edit start
- if you must be in job then take leadership... start an employees union.
- shoes must be dark and polished.
- color-coordinate your clothes.
- be kind and gentleman... never rough.
- be fair... and talk to all economic classes the same gentle way.
- give full attention to those you are talking to.
//edit end


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@KingMamba what do you think??

@Indos @levina @Spring Onion @Marshmallow what do you think of my tips above??

:/ ehhhh a description of a shareef man and in my PERSONAL opinion or to be precise i believe a shareef man is a bakri aka goat/sheep .

not my type

 

[jamahir]

:/ ehhhh a description of a shareef man and in my PERSONAL opinion or to be precise i believe a shareef man is a bakri aka goat/sheep .

not my type

shareef?? shareef?? where did i describe that type of male?? madam ji, i dropped out of college in 1996 and have led quite an adventurous life, including leadership in transnational socialist politics... so, shareef and my points...

I have done everything except that gathering tea party thing. Except that I do everything.

welcome to the brotherhood of proper gentlemen...

 

[Biplab Bijay]

shareef?? shareef?? where did i describe that type of male?? madam ji, i dropped out of college in 1996 and have led quite an adventurous life, including leadership in transnational socialist politics... so, shareef and my points...



welcome to the brotherhood of proper gentlemen...

Now a days i am arranging a tea party for 3-4 people. he he he. And you can see my profile picture. I love to wear T-shirts under shirt.

 

[Hiptullha]

flirting works for me... maybe because i am in mid-30's and confident... and i have deep voice, so maybe that helps... other things also, i suppose...
only once has my flirting had the lady complain against me... but i handled it...

You can be like Gaddafi. Flirt with a women and lure her into your room where your socialist friends hold her down so you can rape her.

 

[Spring Onion]

shareef?? shareef?? where did i describe that type of male?? madam ji, i dropped out of college in 1996 and have led quite an adventurous life, including leadership in transnational socialist politics... so, shareef and my points...



welcome to the brotherhood of proper gentlemen...

i found most of points sheepish

 

[jamahir]

Now a days i am arranging a tea party for 3-4 people. he he he. And you can see my profile picture. I love to wear T-shirts under shirt.

yes, i see you use t-shirt the proper way... as undershirt... though mine are always black and jockey...

You can be like Gaddafi. Flirt with a women and lure her into your room where your socialist friends hold her down so you can rape her.

i see that you have read that book of lies and fantasies by annick cojean... my friend, why do you persist in hating socialism... and i really look like that photo of young jinnah i put earlier in the thread... why then would i need to do what you describe...

i found most of points sheepish

if you point out which ones and give reasoning, i can more easily understand what you are pointing out...

 

[Biplab Bijay]

yes, i see you use t-shirt the proper way... as undershirt... though mine are always black and jockey...

Actually it is comfortable, is not it ?

 

[Spring Onion]

y


if you point out which ones and give reasoning, i can more easily understand what you are pointing out...

t-shirts should never be worn on the outside... t-shirts ( like jockey ) should always be worn under the shirt.
- grow hair and comb neatly.
- never talk fast... you will be perceived as cunning.
- never use f-words... you will not be seen as gentlemanly.
- never ride a motorcycle ( especially in india )... you will always remain in middle class poverty.

Source: Self Improvement thread | Page 8

 

[jamahir]

Actually it is comfortable, is not it ?

rather comfortable... doesn't even feel like it's there... and gives a good hang to the shirt...

 

[Biplab Bijay]

rather comfortable... doesn't even feel like it's there... and gives a good hang to the shirt...

Yep. I said the same things to my colleagues but they did not believe it.

 

[jamahir]

t-shirts should never be worn on the outside... t-shirts ( like jockey ) should always be worn under the shirt.
- grow hair and comb neatly.
- never talk fast... you will be perceived as cunning.
- never use f-words... you will not be seen as gentlemanly.
- never ride a motorcycle ( especially in india )... you will always remain in middle class poverty.

Source: Self Improvement thread | Page 8

so, your type is "t-shirt on the outside" wearing immature who is uncombed, foul-mouthed, noisy-motorcycle-riding and poverty-stricken??

 

[Spring Onion]

so, your type is "t-shirt on the outside" wearing immature who is uncombed, foul-mouthed, noisy-motorcycle-riding and poverty-stricken??

poverty stricken not an issue as long as he is willing and strong enough to carry some work be it labour work and able to feed his family and educate them. if wealthy well not bad either but wealth is NOT the biggest reason.

as far as T-shirt wearing is concerned well nothing wrong with bold dresses when it comes to formal dressing BUT yes for some special occasions he should be dressed properly.
yeh Noisyy motorcycle riding not bad

as far as foul mouthed well no should not be but you cant force one not to use f word ever.

 

[jamahir]

Yep. I said the same things to my colleagues but they did not believe it.

why not you try the ever-class ever-stylish "cravat"... i wear cravat every time i go out.. i must be the only chap in bangalore who wears cravats... in fact, i didn't know this, in the western world, there has been a recent revival of the cravat... though the man should carry the cravat, else will be a disaster...

one old hollywood hero, clark gable... class look...

carlos ( the jackal )... no one can carry the cravat better than this revolutionary...

i recommend you try the cravat... maybe all proper gents on pdf can wear cravats... believe me, it does get attention... but one should be confident in carrying the cravat... one's life and manner should suit the cravat... if you decide to go for it, never use the silly velcro-strap "pre-tied" type... always use a scarf, either silk with cotton backing ( to make it heavy ) or silk/wool mix... i wear cravat on the open shirt ( without a suit ), looks much better that way.

edit : color and pattern of the cravat must be co-ordinated properly with the shirt and pants ( and coat, if worn ).

poverty stricken not an issue as long as he is willing and strong enough to carry some work be it labour work

true.

if wealthy well not bad either but wealth is NOT the biggest reason.

you know, there is a difference between being voluntarily poor and being poor because of circumstance... a real man is poor because of the latter...

as far as foul mouthed well no should not be but you cant force one not to use f word ever.

ladies can really force males not to use f-words, either by giving dirty looks or actually saying so.

yeh Noisyy motorcycle riding not bad

motorcycles look silly and are unsafe... and of course, noisy.

as far as T-shirt wearing is concerned well nothing wrong with bold dresses when it comes to formal dressing BUT yes for some special occasions he should be dressed properly.

what do you think of the cravat??