The answer to your first paragraph is: Its called a lobby and everyone's allowed to have it. But you have to be business minded, less emotional, able to focus on globalization and have democratic values. People from Palestine can have a lobby too. But unfortunately, I've yet to see a real speaker from the middle east who can make sense about a topic in a democratic, peaceful, non-violent, less emotional way. Violence, threats and emotional outbursts don't solve issues. They create more issues.
Second, Jews are good people. In fact, majority of the Arabs here in the US, go to Doctors and Attorneys and Businessmen that are Jews and the Arabs specifically find them. I can give you PLENTY of examples. Why? Because the Arabs know their business ethics and trust them with whatever Health, Wealth or Legal issues that they have. But back in Palestine, the same guys talk shi*t about the Jews...and here in the US, they trust Jews with their lives and money. So much hypocrisy.
I am not even sure if I want to continue this discussion. You guys need to accept Israel as a reality and negotiate (peacefully and democratically) for your own country. Writing such crap that you wrote in your message, emotional outburst, suicide bombings and threats don't help, specially when you want something from the other party.