Result of Love Marriage

[SBD-3]

indeed and a little correction........... Prophet Muhammad indeed had 2 sons but both died in infancy (Ibrahim and forgot the name of second son)

the second one was Qasim (RA)

 

[Skies]

I screwed up. It's brotherbangladesh fault. If you ask me.........

Here is true stat that I have see around me:

Love Marriage................. First child is a daughter.

F Vhai…………......……….............….…..yes
My Uncle…………………...................….yes
K vhai………………………....................…yes
C vhai…………………….............….....…..yes
R vhai………………………........................No
F Apu……………………….............……..….yes
H Chacha……………………..................….No
F Chacha…………………….............………yes
Z vhai………………………….............……….yes
S sis................................................yes

So, there in 80% case the first child is a daughter. So I suggest you to look around you considering 70% in average. And I can not give any scientific explanation as it's a natural phenomenon to me.

BTW, I am fan of those people who make true love and then able to marry. So congratulations.

 

[sur]

I'd like to marry 1st & then fall in love with my wife (or wives for that matter)...

that's the way things were in past & were much more successful than love marriages where order is reverse...

 

[Spitfighter]

But how can you marry someone you don't even know, forget love. Arranged marriages are ridiculous, people should go out there and find their soul mate by themselves, how can a right minded adult come back home and say 'dad, find me a girl'?

 

[AZADPAKISTAN2009]

But how can you marry someone you don't even know, forget love. Arranged marriages are ridiculous, people should go out there and find their soul mate by themselves, how can a right minded adult come back home and say 'dad, find me a girl'?

Same way you expect to meet someone on street and fall in love lol its complicated spitfighter don't play with nature you will get burned

I think the open way or correct way should be ... what you find suitable for your own personal choice

 

[ameer219]

Same way you expect to meet someone on street and fall in love lol its complicated spitfighter don't play with nature you will get burned

I think the open way or correct way should be ... what you find suitable for your own personal choice

Hahaha, Gabbar, do you have a girlfriend or are you married? You sound professional in this topic!

 

[SBD-3]

look mohabbat....mohabbat hote hay!!!!...mazak nahi....agar kisi ko yaqeen nahi aata to Kashif se pochlay

 

[Hyde]

look mohabbat....mohabbat hote hay!!!!...mazak nahi....agar kisi ko yaqeen nahi aata to Kashif se pochlay

Kashif nahi Najma se pooch le (that letter was written by Najma to Kashif)

 

[SBD-3]

Kashif nahi Najma se pooch le (that letter was written by Najma to Kashif)

Oh haaan Najma see pochlo

 

[moving_ahead]

how can u say that ?

haha i think its true and i have thought about some couples they all had first babe girl

 

[linkwheel]

i fell in love with every girl i see

 

[Mrityunjay Rai]

i fell in love with every girl i see

Bahut ache . Sabako barabar najar se dekhana chahiye . keep it up.

 

[linkwheel]

Bahut ache . Sabako barabar najar se dekhana chahiye . keep it up.

ok i'll try tht

 

[Salik]

Lo my 11000 posts completed so now i am off to some rest

Now it shows girls talk tooooooo much


Universal truth

.......just joking

 

[Skies]

What is the secret of this phrase"Ladies First"​

It is common to hear the expression 'ladies first'. Women, in particular, daily repeat it as if it is a rule. They actually feel proud of it, unknowing its origin and its real indications. They think it is praise to them, while it is a shame to be said according to its origin.

The story of this saying took place in Italy. It is about two lovers who loved each other so much. They decided to marry. But some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage. They did not accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife, or to die. together Having done best to achieve the marriage, they got disappointed. Dying was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suicide,throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them. The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowning to death in front of his eyes. He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so latter.
In the rush moment, the man did it and drown. The lady was looking at him as if he was 'singing'. The man was dead. It was the lady's turn to follow him to live together underneath, as they decided. But she soon broke her promise, forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well.
She 'threw herself back to the village'. Yes! Her promise was to throw herself. And she did, but to the village instead of the sea.
She came back home, to her relatives as if nothing has happened. Few days later, she fell in love with another man. She was happy with him as if it was her first love. It did not take a lot of time till she got married to him.

Since then, people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying 'ladies first', with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sea first, should die first, because they are not trustworthy.
It is really interesting when one hears a lady proudly says 'ladies first', thinking that she adds a privilege for being a female. Some people, men and women, take it as a social rule, unknowing its real indications.

This is not a personal point of view. It is not, moreover, a personal interpretation of the story. It is what many sources say and interpret the original story. So, women please forgive me for shedding light on this.
I do only a favor for women so that to be aware of when to say 'ladies first' and when not to say.​

LOL, ALL ARE not SAME.