I see you keep coming back to mirage, as I've explained there're pros and cons with highly sweep back delta wings.
Pros: Low wing loading, low transonic drag, good for high speed high altitude.
Cons: Shallow lift vs AoA curve, that means to pull high-g they tend to need to pitch into high AoA, thus induce a lot more drag -> lose energy fast. Low sustained turn rate unless you have high TWR.
Those are what you get with delta-wings, this is the major difference in kinematics in M2k vs F-16, or J-31 vs J-20. No design is absolutely superior, it only depends on how you use them.
In terms of wing-span / length aspect ratio, J-31 is somewhere between F-22 and F-35, so it is not a marked difference by any stretch of imagination, I don't know how you get your feelings... As to the videos we have no idea what g and what air-speed J-31 is doing so I won't pay attention to it unless I have more info to go by.
If you want larger wings AND more powerful engine, you might as well go for twin engine heavy fighter, the likes of J-20, F-22 of Su-57....
Do you have source of Rd-93 getting 105kn? Anyhow WS-19 is slatted to have TWR over 9, max thrust over 11 tons wet, no idea on delivery date, however consensus is that it will come out around 2020 since it is the engine designed for J-31.