I agree that honor, actual morality and rationality at least in the political, socio-economic and cultural ways are hard to negotiate in the current world where "democracy" is ruling. I speak from the perspective of a Communist Muslim. For example the Western governments and their brainwashee society will find it scandalous and form a mob to persecute a female-male couple where the situation was natural where the female is of age 16 and was lascivious with a male of age 30. The act was natural for the girl but the couple will be hounded because of fake morality and fake feminism but the same Western governments and their brainwashee society will not condemn, persecute and prosecute their leaders or former leaders who have been involved in genocide, war crimes and destablization of progressive societies. From the Korea war of 1950s to the genocide of up to three million Indonesian Communists in 1965-66 to the Iraq war to Libyan invasion to Syrian war to now NATO's terrorists and Nazis in the Ukraine war, morality is the loser.
As for "family values" how far are we willing to defend those unclear things ? We in India, Pakistan and Afghanistan know very well of honor killing, and honor killing in our region is an ancient thing which should have disappeared. Should we retain honor killing for some strange idea of nostalgia ?