Sir
I can understand that....
I will go through your rest of post as well but this line gives me an inclination that you are trying to say we don't care what UK thinks/do....No offense but this is very naive view when it comes to diplomacy....As said this reduce your bargaining power even if by a fraction and you don't want to do that....Remember UK used to have good relations with both India and Pak....You would not like to decrease your friends just out of ego...but again these are my views....Pakistani's would know better about Pakistan any given day than me....
When i said powerful i did not mean they have a say in Pakistan foreign policy....However international politics you would need them..This is what i mean by geo-political weight and bargaining power...For example - Pakistan would not like India to get UNSC permanent seat. Now you cannot sit idle and put all your money on China. You will like to do some effort of your own to deny us numbers...More the friends you will have more easily you will be able to achieve your target...Please don't forget they do have a good say in matters pertaining to EU....
Please note the point i am trying to derive here is that thumb rule of good diplomacy is to increase your friends...
I am not sure if i followed you here but snubbing the PM of a nation cannot be treated as snubbing a person and not nation..sorry international politics don't work like this....
Give me an honest reply....Zardari is way unpopular in Pakistan....Obama's popularity has decreased to a larger extent...Does that mean if Zardari/Obama are snubbed by any nation the country will not bother??? Please note the heads are representing the country...when you snub them you are snubbing the country and not the person....
As said it is Pakistani's to decide what is right for them. I am just sharing my opinion...Though when Obama was here lot of noises were there for him to visit Pakistan...The idea is how to get the relations back to normal(they doesn't seem to be normal)...Cameroon did offer and Pak rejected...May be this is best for Pakistan's interest though i fail to get the connection....
I am afraid but rejecting a visit offered by head of a state like UK might not be the nicest way of passing on the message....once again Cameroon is PM of UK and he has said some very open things about Pakistan while in India...I believe it is in Pakistan's best interest to make him understand the sensitivity of the situation instead of snubbing him....That would be the right diplomacy...Just to give you an example
when Obama was campaigning for US elections he made some comments that would have send shivers down the throats of our diplomat...He connected Kashmir and Pakistan effort in WOT(which from US perspective is right) but then lot of back channel diplomacy was used and message was given in clear and crystal terms....Results were satisfactory....Pakistan should do something similar and snubbing a PM visit can brings some smile but they do have the potential for long term losses....Relations with Israel, Russia are some bad examples that can quoted from Pakistan's foreign office diplomacy....
Note : As said repeatedly these are my personal views. Just trash them if they don't make sense...
Regards...