As if you could do anything else. Remember we kept your diginity by giving back 93K Pakistani pow's decades back. Every country has to oblige the Geneva conventions. It's not anyone's favour.
On war, you are saying as if Pakistan has not initiated any war or aggression against India in Past??
At present you are desperately trying to avoiding a conflict and it's quite evident why.
But an intelligent adversary will always wait for the right time to attack his enemy, its nothing new in the world and neither is India an exception. You should better read The Art Of War by Sun Tuz.
P.S: There is still enough room for an aggressive but limited conventional war. One of your stupid generals had already proved that two decades back. LOL