mate, both India and Pak have majority middle and lower class people, they suffer every day -
are more sensitive to support their family with their limited source of income
people are suffering in Afghanistan, Baluchistan, Africa, Syria, China and in almost all countries..for some not having enough financial means to pay for their only son's heart surgery is suffering, millions are suffering from Cancers, for some suffering means not getting clean water to drink , for some not getting two times food means suffering, for some sleeping on the street without enough cloths on body is suffering etc etc
We cant pick and chose the suffering of people, what you see in Kashmir is prestige and ego issues and not the suffering of people....So killing millions ordinary people from both sides in the name of kashmiri freedom is not something Pakistan should do, lets focus on the actual/real sufferings that I mentioned in my first para.