Indeed it is not encouraging however, allow me to point out something about Islamist ideology, something which it shares with it's ideological inspiration, that is to say, totalitarianism -- Islamism, like totalitarianism produces, because that is what it aims to produce, a completely immoral society.
By now you will be formulating a "how is this so, after all, the emphasis of these systems is on morality " The answer is in the utopian and millenarian vision of these ideological formulations, the citizen serf is supposed to obey, not question, after all, the policy comes from on high and a other worldly effort is involved, the flawed human is to be made perfect and his flawed society is to be made perfect -- in the case of Pakistan and it's islamism malady, this means society so brutalized that it no longer poses questions of justice and right ans wrong and good or bad, it obeys and mouths slogans - for a minute consider what islamists of Pakistan have done to Muslims of Pakistan.
But the hope for Pakistan is that there are still Muslims, men and women who have faith in God and His message of Salvation through faith/love (Rahman raheem - over and over and over again, as if Quran Karim means for this to be heard above all else) Mercy, Forgiveness and the middle path - and these men and women cannot be broken by any ideology or army or gang of terrorists --- because their faith/love is intimately conjoined with Haq, justice.
Pakistanis will and are awakening everyday, but that does not mean they are not scared or confused, and it takes time for the sleeper to shake the stupor off and become conscious.
You have spoken of regional cultures, but recall we have forsaken our own history in pursuit of an ideology of nihilism, but heritage cannot be lost or shaken off, it stares back at you from the mirror - the beautiful faces of Pakistanis reflect a complex heritage, all valid, no amount of ideology can hold back that reality.
Allow me to add, when you speak to younger Pakistanis, ask them what "progress" means -- I think you will find their answers immensely interesting - because "progress" is itself so theory laden, it is interesting in itself - I don't want to bias your findings, but mine are that when they do think of "progress", they do not see themselves in it - and isn't that fascinating?? and does it not say much about the ideology whose spell we have fallen under??