Paan Singh
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yaaro bada bura hua,i dont know it was good or bad but i am very frustrated these days..
I loved a grl.We talked n communicated a lot n had good understanding.We have same religion and decided to do marriage.There are few things about us..
1)Girl was 5'4 and i am 6'1 and i talked with my mom and she was not agreed on height and also on profession of girl.I am soft engineer and she says that it would be good if u choose a grl of same profession.I had hope that my parents will get agreed but i know i can convince dem still.and we both decided that we wont go against wish of our parents but will try to convince them.
Now the case wid grl was.
2)Girl is khalsa sikh but we are not and there is little bit difference b/w way of our following of god.Parents of grl are against such little bit thing coz she got parents views cleverly about that.so she said it would be difficult for us to leave each other later on and she has made her mind that her parents would surely reject me due to that factor and she has got demoralised completely.She is afraid of her family members n she says that i cant go against dem or even talk to them.I told her that there are different ways of talking wid parents,you cant simply go n tell them that i love this guy and want to marry him..surely they will kill u..
I took initiative and talked to my mom so that i can raise her confidence that she too can but again same result..
we stopped talking to each other and she got hard on me so that i should also forget her and now daily i wait for her messages which we used to exchange and calls...
i have tried to explain her many times but no result at all...i just like her n dont see anybody other than her still now.She has killed her feelings n ask me to do so but i cant.I want to fight but she is not ready n when i wake up in morning i see my phone waiting for her msg.I have stopped facebook n deleted my acct,even rarely come here too.
She daily checks that whether i m on fb or not and last day i opened again my fb just to talk smbody and i thought i have forgotten her but she again msged me n tried to talk..i dint have words to say n my mood got switched off due to that i still like her very much.
I dont know how to convince her...she has wrong things in her mind and i couldnt get her on board.I want her to atleast talk to her parents about me..parents will decide later on but she says that her family would kill her that her daughter is involved n talk wid me n will never trust her....
i dont know whether we are made for each other n left hope but what shud i do wid my heart..it doesnt forget her n she improved me a lot n i miss her...
i dont know why we human beings are too divided on such minor issues but here we dont have any issue like caste etc..but smthing else..
i cant tell u guys..sorry...but just wanted to share my portion of life wid u.
I loved a grl.We talked n communicated a lot n had good understanding.We have same religion and decided to do marriage.There are few things about us..
1)Girl was 5'4 and i am 6'1 and i talked with my mom and she was not agreed on height and also on profession of girl.I am soft engineer and she says that it would be good if u choose a grl of same profession.I had hope that my parents will get agreed but i know i can convince dem still.and we both decided that we wont go against wish of our parents but will try to convince them.
Now the case wid grl was.
2)Girl is khalsa sikh but we are not and there is little bit difference b/w way of our following of god.Parents of grl are against such little bit thing coz she got parents views cleverly about that.so she said it would be difficult for us to leave each other later on and she has made her mind that her parents would surely reject me due to that factor and she has got demoralised completely.She is afraid of her family members n she says that i cant go against dem or even talk to them.I told her that there are different ways of talking wid parents,you cant simply go n tell them that i love this guy and want to marry him..surely they will kill u..
I took initiative and talked to my mom so that i can raise her confidence that she too can but again same result..
we stopped talking to each other and she got hard on me so that i should also forget her and now daily i wait for her messages which we used to exchange and calls...
i have tried to explain her many times but no result at all...i just like her n dont see anybody other than her still now.She has killed her feelings n ask me to do so but i cant.I want to fight but she is not ready n when i wake up in morning i see my phone waiting for her msg.I have stopped facebook n deleted my acct,even rarely come here too
.She daily checks that whether i m on fb or not and last day i opened again my fb just to talk smbody and i thought i have forgotten her but she again msged me n tried to talk..i dint have words to say n my mood got switched off due to that i still like her very much.
I dont know how to convince her...she has wrong things in her mind and i couldnt get her on board.I want her to atleast talk to her parents about me..parents will decide later on but she says that her family would kill her that her daughter is involved n talk wid me n will never trust her....
i dont know whether we are made for each other n left hope but what shud i do wid my heart..it doesnt forget her n she improved me a lot n i miss her...
i dont know why we human beings are too divided on such minor issues but here we dont have any issue like caste etc..but smthing else..
i cant tell u guys..sorry...but just wanted to share my portion of life wid u.
