To Pakistan friends...Chill out man...now a days..most of the neighborliness countries have some issues or the other....See like we Indian and Pakistan people...We have diff and warss too...that does not mean we hate you...or in same sense entire Pakistan hates Indian...So in that context Afganistan has yet to evolve as an independent nation..So once their nation is self sufficient and modern, then definitely...people will appreciate your role and any good work if you have done for them..I donot feel this is such a big issue for Pakistan public..
I must disagree with you:
1. Pakistanis do not by and large hate Indians
2. Indians do not by and large hate Pakistanis
3. "1" and "2" despite what you have rightly pointed out that we have fought wars grabbed territory
4. Pakistanis and Indians at the personal level are quite friendly to each other
5. Afghans have a hatred for Pakistanis and issues like "Afganistan has yet to evolve as an independent nation" certainly do not help but do not constitute the center-of-gravity
Plus we are not advocating anything harmful for Afghans and Afghanistan. We wish the Afghans well, may they prosper.
All we are saying is that until a time when this hatred subsides:
1. Pakistan should expel all 3 million Afghans refugees from Pakistan – there is no need to host a people who are ungrateful and hostile to Pakistanis
2. The resources Afghans consume in Pakistan: schools, hospitals, universities should go to Pakistanis – no point in giving these to a people, Afghans, who hate us Pakistanis
3. Pakistan should not provide transit trade to Afghans – it will reduce drugs and guns in Pakistan.