Umair Nawaz
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yeh lo...pehlay kuch poochtay hain when you reply it is a complain rather than your miserable experience in a miserable minded society!
Who the heck are you that I SHOULD COMPLAIN to you?! Are you the PM? The police? NO then why the heck would I COMPLAIN TO YOU??!
AND THIS previous post you talk about...I realize you understood it wrong and are keeping it in mind!!
I CLEARLY separate MYSELF from
those who mix RELIGION AND CULTURE!
Nothing to do with MY COUNTRY so please BACK OFF from that part of your topic you are the one who said put me on a different list!
Now I am wondering if you cant understand proper ENGLISH! I never used US it was you who separated me from PAKISTAN!! WHEN YOU said about how US PAKISTANIS think of YOU FOREIGNERS as ATMS when YOU FOREIGNERS build mahals! (this is in my own words but the context and YOU AND US is correct)
Hence proven!
IT IS NOT THE SAME!!! I WAS saying about how PAKISTANIS in general not targeting you but the thinking the ideas....PAKISTANIS as a general a incapable of accepting change and new ideas!
You don't know me hence you cant judge me....BUT I HAVE SEEN, BEEN WITH and TRIED TO ADJUST in Pakistan and was not capable because ANYTHING NEW is HARAAMMMM or wait, for women we are labelled as sluts for wearing jeans which are much looser than the TANG PAJAMA fashion that came out! but no because jeans are worn in the west it is harammmmm!! this is a simple idea I am giving as example
Furthermore, it is ok when a guy eyes a woman but if a woman accidently stares in thin air and a stupid man is standing there, he thinks he is invited? When the woman puts him back in his place oh g woh modern hogi because she can RAISE HER VOICE FOR HER HAQ?!!
If a woman asks for divorce she is a slut and was always wrong...she has to have an affair for leaving a man?! WHAT MENTALITY is that?! She is shunned from the society but a divorcee man can marry a new 18 yr old?! :What:
and you proved my 2nd point of people throwing in assumptions!! or passing judgement based on assumptions!!
this is outrageous!
AGAIN another judgement passed based on assumption!!
TELL ME WHAT SERVICE DOES PAKISTAN WANT? When my cousin tried to offer service...he has AMERICAN passport YET the silly people refuse to give him his PhD based on politics and some stupid family feud?!
What service does PAKISTAN want after fining us for something a 420 living in the country did? Instead of finding the culprit and punishing him WE HAD TO GO TO COURT, PAY the fine and EVEN AFTER THAT someone else named it as theirs? AND AGAIN ANOTHER SET OF$$$ to get it back....How come a clean guy gets punished for the corruptness? BECAUSE HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO PLAY THE GAME?!
What crappy service does PAKISTAN want? When my cousin offered his services he was rejected!! LAUGHABLE! isnt it? he was asked to name his findings under someone else and he can get a post....What crap is that?
TELL ME THE SOLUTION....What solution?
You are hanging because you have no choice, you live there PLUS you know the system! For a new comer usko tou kankal ker kay chortay ho!
Hummay agay anay kon dayta hai?
Need is different from wants it is also different from what happens in reality! No point screaming INQALAAB in front of a computer when in reality you know unless you are ****** rich WITH CONNECTIONS you are incapable of even passing your ideas to the govt!
PS The people who know me also consider me a Seedha Sadha man, who can very easily be fooled n played by others n a lot of people have done that with me too!!!!!
Still i chose to stay back n give my services for betterment of my people as much i can.....Because unlike other insensitive people i feel pain of my needy people who look up to people like me.
I have national thinking a Quomi Soach.
if u have so many problems from our supposed conservative society from western standards sitting in the comforts of the west everybody looks bad isnt it
Keeping in view the above Only one thing i can say.....Surrender yr Pak Nationality.U dont deserve to be called a Pakistani n yes im Judging u as a Pakistani who is a Pakistani native n loves his country no matter what it is its still ours no body tells u get out Muslims or abuses us of being a Pakistani.
People stop u from wearing jeans here is because this is a Muslim Country!!!!! as u people come from non muslim countries so yr knowledge about Islam still remains very limited.this yr post's this particular section says same.
Its u who have came into our country not we have gone into yr country so its not logical to follow the same dress code or customs of west n expect to be opening our arms towards u.
Even nobody accepts us in west too if we follow same customs in west.
I had a class fellow female from Punjab University, Lahore who had gone to Miami as a student exchange program in 2009 her tenure in US was of at-least 4 years, She came back with in first 4 months. First she didnt came to the University or she used to leave her home, then from a common friend i came to know that how she Also got a ''Cultural Shock'' as she struggled to get into those Western Clothes the jeans etc etc and one day around Maghrib she had gone outside to buy some things from store near by her hostel n she was wearing Shalwar Kameez and then HOW a bunch of American Pigs tried to moles her n abused her of being a Muslim n covering her self by dupatta. they asked her to Strip that!! on her refusal..........
they had literally torn her dress, for good amount of time they were playing with her body, two of them raped her.... She was saved by the owner of that Store who was passing by on his way to his store. He was an Afghani n knew her as she used to come to his store.
they had involved police into this matter but those Americans were never found and this is the Story of Miami City in Florida State Of United States of America..... yr western Country.
And u talkink about just some male staring u in our society.
Regarding that Marriage drama u had told me i know a story from Lutton.
A girl was married with a pakistani who lived in Pak in his whole life. Yr British Gov didnt issue him visa even after 4 years of his marriage. On the other hand his British wife was studying in a university.
in 2012 in the Month of November She took divorce for no real reason just excuse like he is a jahil on the other hand the man was MBA from well known university of Isalmabad n they husband n wife were cousins too.
Later on from other relatives of his family residing in Manchester told them that she had came to Manchester of some course and their she meet a Hindu Guy from India and rest u can imagine.
All this had Happened in the first year of their marriage n she continued her secret affair with him for next 3 years then she took divorce just recently n in November and now wants to marry him and settle in india as that guy is in British for just a study visa. In January last month, when one of his(Pakistani's) relatives had visited islamabad from Manchester he told this story to his family.
And do u know who that Guy is??
He is my Best Friend, Hammad.
I had no intention to share these bitter stories here but yr recent post had forced me to share them.
and the purpose to share was this that u learn the other side of picture too what we native Pakistanis go to west What type of Cultural Shock we get n it is most painfull too as we r alone in foreign land. When u people come in our country at-least u come with yr parents or visit yr relatives here. yr not left totally alone here for months n years.
Like u have yr cousins example i also have some of the even bitter stories of west.
But i dont generalize people or nations on the individual acts n expect the same from u too.....Yr cousin's case ws most unfortunate but by just that one incident u cant say everybody will face n is faces same.
Rest of yr post is laughable at its best.
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papa ki bhi!!
