lastofthepatriots
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A few years ago Pakistan played
Afghanistan at headingley in the WC - was the same. A few boisterous Afghanis all of a sudden wanted to become superheroes and started behaving like matcho men - showing off and acting tough. Most of them have little family and kids - hence don’t know how to behave in front of kids and ladies. Needless to say after an hour or so they dispersed back to reality world and back to their take away kitchens to clean etc.
They are first generation poor and uneducated bro - I’m not generalising - just stating facts - btw those creating havoc in UAE are probably already arrested and deported - these Arabs don’t fukc about
When you have a family you tend to chill the f out. I used to be very violent, hands on, always ready to fight/hot head in my younger years.
I’ve noticed that after having a son(2 years old now) I’ve really mellowed out. Staying up all night when he was sick as a small baby. Taking him out to parks, teaching him kalima ect. Raising a child takes a lot of dedication and hard work.
I guess my perspective has changed. When I get angry at someone instead of my default reaction of smacking the shit out of that person my brain automatically starts to think that no matter how much I hate this person, he must have parents too. They must have stayed up countless nights and sacrificed so much for this person too. And if anything were to happen to that person, how much the hearts of his parents would hurt, just like if anything happened to my son how much my heart would hurt.
I don’t know if that makes sense to any of you, but my killer instinct has now gone into hibernation.
That’s why I try to advocate peace to everyone because har kisi ko apni aulad pyari hoti he.
I guess the only way my killer instinct would be reactivated is if someone were to try and do something to my family or my son.
Otherwise instead of jumping head first into fighting with someone, I have no problem just turning around and walking away as I don’t feel like I have the need to prove anything anymore.