Hmm, you went into cosmology to explain the events of the subcontinent. Yes, that is the nature of the world and universe itself, there is continuum followed by destruction and then continuum again followed by destruction, and that is how evolution takes place. There is no overlooking this fact. Cause and effect is also woven into the fabric of the universe. So is light and dark, good and bad, right and wrong, safe and dangerous, all the opposites. But then this discussion was not about the cosmology and the nature of the universe and evolution. We were talking at a much lower level than that. At a level of human behavior, history, and memories. The worm's eye view so to speak.
There would be no anguish for the bygone age if we did not see the replication of the same events in this age. They say those who do not learn from history are condemned to repeat it. So when people talk about, discuss about, and analyse history here on PDF, it is just an engaging way of learning history and about ourselves.
If you were to make light of history and say oh it was meant to happen and so it happened, then remember the present too was meant to happen and will happen, so will the future. You can have a reductionist's view where everything is fragmented and history has no bearing on our present and the present is just a freak isolated instance in time and space and history serves no purpose, then I can only point to the realities of our nations and tell you it is not so.
Anyway, I am sorry you missed your prayers with the jamaat.
As far as being messed up goes, I see no evidence of that either. It is just my view of history and no, it has no bearing on how I treat people around me or how people treat me. Things are fine.