Well my brother I told you I would contribute so here I am.
First things first I have made sincere dua for you. I'll be honest and say the most powerful defence against such evil is your own iman. Do you know demons fear pious individuals? The great Umar(ra) walked one side and the demons ran the other way! Please, please try to pray your salat. Just think bro it's only 10 minutes. I see people waste 10 minutes just reading their phones, what is 10 minutes for the Lord of universe! If you can't go all out, just try reading one salat a day, start with Isha for example. It's the one people can read easy i.e. due to nightfall and people are generally relaxing. After this just build up to one more and then another, until you reach the full five. Your life will change immensely, I swear by Allah(swt).
Now for the magic. Brother if you are sure you heard your poppo say this, then I'm afraid that is kuffar Akbar i.e. something which nullifies your faith and castes you out of the fold of Islam. I'm not saying she is, but that's how serious it is, ANY such magic always involves demonic power, which if contacted, they demand a tribute, and once this is given then you have worshiped other than Allah.
Thank you so much, Actually I was waiting for your response and even thinking about sending you a PM here , anyway what you say is 100% truth, but thing is brother we are not Umar Khattab RA, i mean my name is Omer but i am no way even 0.1% of what level of imaan and faith that man carries, no wonder Satan take the other road. I also understand that you and others are asking me about keeping a strong trust on Allah and keep up with the Salah, and trust me when i say it I did my best , i do try it and yet I am unable to get it consistent .
You are very humble bro, my aunt is no less than Shaytan ki khala , probably more than that .. she is so weird and evil that I am sure Satan will be so proud of her, she alone destroyed my whole Father side family, all of my uncle and phuppies hate each other and don't even want to meet each other except through my this aunt , not because of her been pious , but she make everyone fight , while meet them behind their backs ..`
Next how to counter this. Bro please and I know it's tough, you may have to leave the house. She is using your presence as a binding force to do evil. If you can't at the moment then please make sure your belongings are on lock and key. Start to quietly dispose of your nail clippings, shaven/plucked hair outside of the house. Personal belongings and more importantly things of 'flesh' are needed for magic to work. You need to break the cycle. Also try to look for freshly dug mounds in and around your out area, as you may find an item of yours/hair etc put in the hole with knots tied to it. Also look for tree branches and any item attached to them, as this is another route for black magic to be channelled.
Well I never saw things like knots or Taweez but As i keep mentioning burned paper, eggs , poop smell ,walking sounds , knocking on doors/windows and a mysterious letter which is I think to much to discuss here , that was the most bizarre thing we have ever discovered in our house and i think that is one reason we get cautious about out aunt because the letter was about her, I live in a township and there is no soil or dirt, we have no porch or garden as well, all is concrete if she or anyone else dig anything we will know.
Now try to find someone in Karachi who is devout and well known sheikh. Going on the recommendations of pious people is a good way to find such great folks. He will see you, assess the damage done and give you certain ayah to read, water to drink (Quran read over it), place around the house etc. There are other things which can be done to break the cycle. I can ask someone I know well who helped with my brother's case, a horrible incident of a demonic entity which came to attack him, I will write up the full story for all of you to read. I can ask about Karachi and if he has any contacts here. Do let me know how things are now.
brother, honestly I am trying and its like something so powerful is keeping me away from praying , every time i try to convince myself that Allah overpower everything, something happen in my house or family which leads me to believe that Allah has forsaken me and my family , I keep asking Allah for ease things for me just a little so i can make a fresh start, just a Hint or sign of success or something to give me that strengthen my weak Imaan, Honestly I have been to few Baba's and aalims, many of them give us different answer , some say its black magic, some say your house is not good for you leave asap , some say someone from your family is doing a Amal on your family, some says that its extreme case of Nazar , Hassad , Jalan ( Evil eye , Envy and jealously ), they even go on to say that its so dangerous that its not just killing you because the one who is doing all that knows he can't kill you guys but whoever is doing it will make sure that your lives will be ruined and so far she is winning .
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@LeGenD Permission, I did talked to a guy from his Reference, I do understand where he was coming from and i accept that he did not give me false hopes and things which fakes imams do like naqsh and other stuff ,his mostly emphasis was on start praying and either reading/putting on PC surah Al Baqra, I just feel that this person I talked to he was very out of touched about the things I was telling him, I know Namaz and tilawat is very good and my mother, sister , father do it in our house every day .. but things is that if I am not doing all that than if only my life is ruined that is understandable, why my Brother , sister or mother or father who pray and recite quran as well ? Why not they get something better in their lives ?
Honestly I won't mind if you manage to find a contact, of course having multiple opinion over matters is always good, but i agree that I have to change myself but its like every time i do neeyat or intent to do something, something happen that cause me to divert it, make me upset on the situation that I say , Forget it ..Allah has forsaken me, and if he is not listening to me and my pleas , not just that but my family and he is watching us suffer than I refuse to bow or pray in front of him , I know i should not say it but Its like a battle between me and Allah at this moment where we both are in a constant dead lock, he is not fixing my life and I am not praying to him .. Of course I am nobody to fight with Allah over anything , i mean he is all powerful and lord of the universes , but this is how messy things are in my head .
@Starlord I'm going to say something that may be considered a little controversial but this stems from a lot of personal experience and my own assessment of you. Back in 2017 I met an alim in Kci who told me that I'll see great troubles but I will be given a lot of grace that very few got and in 2019 I saw it while I was going through very hard personal circumstances. He also told me somethings about my family issues like you are experiencing I asked him what special thing I can or should do and he told me, nothing. Just do what you're doing because every thing that we suggest is to empower faith not undo anything. If your faith is already strong then you really don't need anything. As far as I've known you and your frustrations then you're someone who's highly frustrated with your circumstances and you're seeing outlets for it. You can't stop other people from having malintent against you but to be faithful and that means trusting Allah and being patient as well as optimistic. That's what I did and all my problems took care of themselves. Instead of looking for some remedy, look inwards and onwards by keeping that optimistic mindset, people who deviate towards black magic have the same mindset that gives them temptations and they don't even know sometimes that they're taking on advice which is actually harmful. Have faith, by that I mean, have faith, be hopeful and patient. Every hard time goes. If you're not getting what you desire maybe it's for your own good. Trust.
My apologies to anyone who gets offended I'm just sharing my experience. Rest I second
@waz and send you my sincerest duas.
Yaar
@jaibi bhai , you as a Psychiatrist must have an idea about the frustration I am going through, the constant battle between my rationale mind and spiritual way is getting worse, I wrote about my struggle in responding to Waz , explaining how worse it is for me to even stand up and pray, for people saying it just stand up and Pray is easy but it is not that, I don't know if it my mental , physical health that is keeping me away, or its just Allah has put a seal in my heart hence i am unable to connect to him, or its just all in my head, and there is no God or no such entity and I am just not doing enough for myself , or struggling enough to push my life even further .