Mob molestations bring outrage in India

[T90TankGuy]

actually molestations have nothing to do what what is being discussed . molestations happen due to the mindset of men in india , which tell most of them its ok to do what you want just cuz you are a man . believe it or not most of these men have learned this from their own household . ever time the mother favors her son over the daughter or the son gets away with a mistake .

i have seen this first hand in my friends home . his mum always stood up for him , even when he did wrong ,she always said to his sis her bro had first preference ,the men are served food first . then the women eat . this conditions the boy from a young age to think he is superior then a girl and he can do any thing he likes.

this happens to some degree in almost ever home . its the mindset we have to change .. and it starts with the parents . after all children mirror what their parents do .

 

[cloud_9]

Daar ji tussi fikar na karen.I've already my plan in place for my sasural too.

I think I'm too young to be your Dada ji ........ Aunty ji

 

[ajtr]

Hmm..No need to utilize your power...This person doesnt understands or maybe he/she is being deprived of the rights..Or maybe having a tough time internal pressures building up and concentrating into a single point Mood swings..Uneasyness. You dont want to argue with such a person... Do you???

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

[Sv01]

1. yes, women are in the military, but they are not on the front lines. In the US BY LAW women cannot fight on the front lines. No one seems to be yelling sexism about this. Also, BY LAW only men can be drafted into the military in the US and most countries. So please, tell me about the protest rally you will hold against these unjust laws....oh right

2. I am not talking about isolated incidences. If we want to talk isolated incidences, I have seen a cow kill a lion.
I am talking about exceptions. It is not expected for a women to defend her family, the man is expected to do it. Yet no women's group are protesting this mid-evil mindset. Why?

3. You are making a false comparison. Women have responsibility that men can never have and thus women get honor and respect for that.
Men have responsibility that women can never achieve and they get honor and respect for that.

The problem is that women want to get honor and respect of a man while not taking on the responsibility.

I know you think that making roti evey day is hard work, but if you ever spend a day in a factory, you will never complain about making roti again.
Or better yet, try war. Dying for your country is only expected for men and not women. I am sure most women would chose making roti over being killed brutally in a battle field.

And in fact, if we look at the stats, most "modern and liberated women" chose to cook dinner over joining the military.

I think you are confusing the issue. It's all about the choices that a person is given. If there is not even the choice offered to women to be in frontlines then how can you blame women for not being there. Men do it because they have that choice. How many men consider it their responsibility to start with to be butchered in wars.....?. Men join armed forces as a job or for excitement ....and I can bet that if the choice was there a lot of women would do the same. It is similar to women first getting accepted in armed forces/ air force etc. even for many men being on frontlines is not their choice.

I agree that there are responsibilities that men have had to shoulder but how can you say that women are not willing to take on those responsibilities? Yes men are physically stronger so there is a natural tendency where they become defenders however would you agree that in cases such as thieves etc you mentioned... Those aggressors are also men in most instances? And how many cases have you seen where men are being called upon to defend their family?

The main issue is do you think women should be offered same choices and same respect and same acceptance for their decisions as men do? If not, then why?
Do you think that women should be judged for their behavior in the same manner in society as men...positively or negatively?


In cases like molestation/ eve teasing/ domestic violence - can a guy ever imagine how much those incidents scar a person's psyche and self esteem.

Its all about whether a person is given similar opportunities and similar acceptance of their choices and decisions. When people have those choices they automatically also take on responsibilities. That's why you see more and more women taking on financial responsibility of their household, of their parents . In US you see more and more women being the sole breadwinners of their family because they have the choices.

Finally the comments about words on that woman's placard... I think it is being misunderstood. I believe the intent is to say that do not have double standards. If you consider it's ok for a guy to have a drink once a while then have the same standard for a woman. If it's ok for a guy to dance/ sing then consider the same for a woman. Really do not understand how dancing singing etc makes someone a prostitute? Even if you go to a beach and see women in bikinis and having beers... Would that make them prostitutes? That kind of judgment is what is abusive I think.

 

[Executioner]

I think girls needs to watch Femme Fatales Tv show there is porni stuff but they are lethal weapons