Mixed marriages?

[A.Rafay]

Dear brother you should cease all contact with this Sikh girl as pre-marital relations are haram in our religion. Find a pious Muslim girl through your parents in the Islamic way and then look how Allah will bless you In Sha Allah.
Moreover if at all you marry this girl she would have to become a Muslim sincerely and wholeheartedly before the Nikah and not just as a farce. Otherwise your marriage will be invalid and you will be living a life of fornication and the children that u'll have as a result would also be illegitimate ie not halal. I don't want to use the specific word so gave u the hint.

Wtf?
@Karachiite go for it dude if you and the girl really love each other and are ready for it, think, you two live in Canada not banistan!

 

[Chronos]

What part of 'Jokes Aside' did you miss ?

I know, it was a joke from me too

Wtf?

My exact reaction too. too much of anything is bad for you even religion.

My friend is dating a sikh girl, i told him to stop. But he has gone lallu for this girl and does what she says like a lallu.

Does lallu mean pussywh!pped?

No and for Muslims Islam is far more important than any other thing and marriage with Sikh girl in Islam the marriage is invalid

I thought you were against marriages Mr.

 

[Roybot]

It will work if you want it to work, supportive parents/family helps but its not a must. I am married to a muslim girl.

 

[Armstrong]

It will work if you want it to work, supportive parents/family helps but its not a must. I am married to a muslim girl.

Ask Bhabi to send some Alllu-Kay-Paratheiii over to her Pakistani Brother in Law !

 

[Pakistanisage]

Benefit of one child policy, no brother, sister, aunts, uncles, just parents and grandparents, but the later are not in Shanghai, and I'm not in China.

So I have no relatives to speak of.

If India adopts the policy, two years later problem solved.

I think you really mean one Generation later the problem will be solved.....

It will work if you want it to work, supportive parents/family helps but its not a must. I am married to a muslim girl.

Judging from your BIGOTED Posts , I can only feel sorry for that poor Girl....

 

[Roybot]

Judging from your BIGOTED Posts , I can only feel sorry for that poor Girl....

And what bigoted post is that?

 

[Umair Nawaz]

Can mixed marriages work? I'm dating an Indian Sikh girl and she's very open minded like myself but her brother found out about us and prohibited her from dating me. He told her it wont work out in the future. I knew a Sikh girl who married a Pakistani guy and they seem to be happy. It's just sad that religion can become a huge obstacle in love.

Her Brother is right and even Islam doesnt allow that be it man or woman. There were some exceptions for men but that too right now seems non practical.

 

[Armstrong]

And what bigoted post is that?

Bhaii mein neiii kiyaa kahaa haiii ?

 

[Roybot]

Ask Bhabi to send some Alllu-Kay-Paratheiii over to her Pakistani Brother in Law !

Sure thing, if you ever come to Sydney you know who to contact.

Bhaii mein neiii kiyaa kahaa haiii ?

Lol this is so strange, I was actually quoting Pakistanisage, somehow I ended up quoting you, my bad.

 

[Umair Nawaz]

Nobody can even predict that a marriage within the same ethnicity might work or not. Though i do believe that religion does become a very important factor in some stage of our respective lives so such marriages are even more challenging than ordinary ones due to individual stark differences that get magnified later in life.

That happens in most of the cases when u have children and they ask them what is our religion.

Lol I didn't ignore you bro. The thing is I know I can find another girl. But it just won't be the same, we both really love each other. I've been with other girls previously but none of them were like her. I guess I'm just a hopeless romantic.

Then ask her to become a Muslim case closed......Lets see how much she really loves u.

 

[KingMamba]

My friend is dating a sikh girl, i told him to stop. But he has gone lallu for this girl and does what she says like a lallu.

Hit him in the throat for being her chamcha.

 

[Umair Nawaz]

He ignored both of us how neat of him. LOL!

It seems he already has made up his mind and wants us to just support him ignoring moral/religious values.

 

[Armstrong]

Hit him in the throat for being her chamcha.

Tuuu khuddd bhiii tou haiii kisssii ka chamchaa !

Baat kartaa haiii !

 

[KingMamba]

Tuuu khuddd bhiii tou haiii kisssii ka chamchaa !

Baat kartaa haiii !

Maa saadkey kaun hai beh minou chamcha banan wala.

 

[Karachiite]

lol you think punjabis in canada are open minded

No, not at all. The ones in the West coast seem very ignorant but the ones in the Toronto area are good people from my experience. The girls I know here like Pakistanis but the guys don't seem to like us.

cut the whining you, if you really think you want her, and she wants you too the same way... nothing or no one is stopping you both to start a new life.
get over with the excuses, be a man !

It's easier said then done. I don't want her to be disowned by her family just for me. Unfortunately, life isn't a bollywood movie.

OP, stop being such a beta. If you truly like the girl man up and put the brother in his place. A relationship is doomed if you are whipped by both the girl and her brother. FFS OP, you shouldn't have let him walk all over you, the fact that he would even say that out loud shows he has no respect for you. By you not doing anything, you are enforcing the viewpoint that you are an emotional foot mat.

Lol he doesn't know me personally, my girl thought he would be ok so she told him my name and my background. Now her whole family is upset.