So Condi Rice and Colin Powel are not 'real' Americans. I guess all the Asians, from Chinese to Viets to Koreans, I see in LA are not 'real' Americans as well.
When it comes to racism from the Chinese here, nothing is too extreme in interpretations and mental gymnastics in trying to portray the US as a racist country despite the fact that Chinese-Americans are doing quite well across the country and in every political spectrum.
Being a "real" American is one thing, but being treated as an American-"American" is another.
As you love to live in your fantasy as being treated as an American-"American", because you've served in military, then that's your own problem.