@ If I have a soft corner for Pakistan then definitely it is for our very existence.
@ For the last 40 years or so we had been hearing all the one sided propaganda's of Awami Leaque and India.
@ It is true that Pakistan had exploited us in many aspects for the last 24 years but the way India and AL says there is hardly any truth on it.
@ The problem was once in 1947 once Bengal became the part of Pakistan, it was no match with the other parts of Pakistan. All the military installations were located at various parts of Pakistan. These were mainly on the Afghan side of the border like Noshera, Waziristan, Chirat, Abbotabad, Rawalpindi and others. They had good number of military strength. Most of them were in the British Indian Army. Where we had no such installations other than some abandoned airfields scattered through out Bangladesh. For your information in 1947 in East Pakistan we had only one skeleton Divisional HQ located at old High Court building, one Combined Military Hospital (CMH) at Dacca Medical College and one yes only one Punjab Regiment. With this one Punjab Regiment along with the scouts of Fuzlul Kader Chow we marched to Rangamati and brought down the flags of Congress and flags of India and brought it under our dominion. In those days we had not a single Jute Mills. There were no Head maters, no Principals, no Darogas, no DC'c, no EP's, all went to India. Can you think in those days we had not a single CSP officer. So comparing East Bengal with other provinces of Pakistan was useless. By 70's the Bengali CSP officers came up at per West Pakistani CSP officers. Even the standard of Bengali CSP officers were better. Soon they started dominating in the foreign services. Never belief on the statical figures of Awami Intellectuals.
Akmal Bhai, you have probably grown up in then West Pakistan and have known their population much more than I could, as I grew up in Dhaka. Although I did have close friends from Pakistan during my college and work days in the US. So you probably have much better information about their mindset, generosity, failings etc. It is also natural for you to have more sympathy because of these reasons, it is only human. Also I do not doubt that the unfair treatment by West Pakistan was more exaggerated than what it really was by Awami propaganda. Like you said, East Pakistan Muslims had nothing when most of the qualified Hindu's left for Kolkata, it took a few decades for our educated middle class to recover somewhat.
Now, looking at historical perspective, I personally do not blame general population of West Pakistan for the military crackdown that their political-military elite decided on, while I do not blame the population of East Pakistan because of the way they were manipulated by Indian instigated Bengali nationalism and six-point movement led by Awami League.
But the hard fact remains that Bhutto-Yahya leadership did decide and gave a go-ahead on Operation Searchlight and it was executed by their subordinates. That triggered the mass killings on both sides, the killing of Bengali's and killing of Bihari/Hindustani Muslims. You may say that RAW agents and Awami thugs did start killings before that already, but these were not large in number and could not have taken shape into a civil war, if they came to a compromise with Mujib, let him be the PM, allow him to make a mess of himself in a few years, as he was incompetent to begin with and then remove him from power in a coup. But instead of choosing a smart option, they chose the wrong thing to do. They did exactly what our enemy the Indian planners and strategists wanted them to do. Instead of dousing the fire with fire extinguisher, they brought an oil tanker and started adding petrol to the fire. Because of this poor choice, some people today even come up with accusation that it was a deliberate attempt by West Pakistan to break off from East Pakistan, instead of going under Bengali rule. And this whole scene took place in East Pakistan, where both local Bengali Hindus/Muslims and Bihari/Hindustani Muslims bore the brunt and got used as cannon fodder.
That is my reason for making that point.
I do support reconciliation and good relationship with Pakistan, as I stated before, after all we are the 2nd and 3rd largest Muslim countries of the world, so in the greater interest of the Muslim world, we have no other choice, in my opinion. And I will always wish them well. But we cannot totally ignore history, that will be an injustice and mark of disrespect to all the people that lost their lives in 1971, regardless of what the total number of dead is and regardless of what their ethnic make up was.
And in my mind, I hold these people to be the perpetrators in this crime:
1. Indian master planners and strategists and their agents in East Pakistan for stoking a nationalism, to advance their geopolitical interest
2. West Pakistani elite that either by mistake or deliberately chose to take the bait and initiated the military crackdown called Operation Searchlight
The victims of course are:
1. Bengali Hindus/Muslims and Bihari/Hindustani Muslims that lost lives and suffered rape and other torture and atrocities