Karan has it right, they will be more then happy if we go for a war. We have to be intelligent, since we have progressed war is something we want to avoid more and they are trying to take advantage of it. The technology is growing fast with regards to anti terrorism and infiltration and soon it will become very difficult to conduct a terrorist activity and that is the way to go.
Things are getting better in Kashmir, violence is declined and it is going to be that way this year too. Nobody believed violence will in end in Indian Punjab but it did right.
There are many aspect.
1) Local gets boarded/ lose sympathy if infiltration carries for long duration as it makes their life hell.
2) We get better and learn skills and buy more weapons.
3) World community thinks this as a threat and will support us.
I guess Kashmir is taking the same route as Punjab, everything has a up and down. Kashmir violence has seen it up, now its going to go down, have patience.