Jordan's not our home, Palestine is.
You would be in a far stronger position to claim your desired home if you toppled Jordan's monarchy. But in order to do that, you would need some legitimacy, like citizenship.
Palestinians have a state, but is colonized by Israel due to western backing. Typical Western colonialism that West in Asia, too.
Look it up.
China should support Palestinians and stand up against Western colonialism.
We and North Korea are the only two East Asian states that recognize Palestine. There isn't much else we can do because it's not our neighborhood, and we have a strong non-interference policy to abide by.
Some of my personal feelings are:
1. Both states have a right to exist, but the 1948 UN partition plan horribly botched the situation by over-assigning land to Israel.
2. Israel's current winning position will continue into the foreseeable future. Most Israeli statesmen are very competent, including Netanyahu. Maybe you find him aggressive, but he's doing everything right to preserve Israel's interests, to the exclusion of all other considerations. I expect the West Bank to be fully incorporated into Israel before 2030 and the Palestinians living there to be most dispossessed and dispersed elsewhere.
3. The only way I see the tables being turned are for Palestinians to outbreed Israelis. But this is a difficult task, if only because Jews are masters of demographic warfare (as an American, you should know). The Israeli birth rate is among the highest in the Western world. They tolerate their radical ultra-orthodox sects because they pump out babies, and they have all sorts of other strategies implemented.
4. Israel's Arab neighbors (i.e. Egypt, Jordan, Lebanon), deserve a significant share of the blame. Their support for Palestinians is quite inadequate. For the former two, it's because US influence is corrupting them.
5. My preferred solution is for Israel to cede land, mainly from the Negev desert, for Gaza to expand so that it can develop into a proper Palestinian state. Gaza has more potential than the West Bank, if only because Fatah seems to have no legitimacy. Also, by assigning most of the Egyptian border to an expanded Gaza state but keeping the southern tip (i.e. area around Eilat), Israel will dramatically minimize its border with Egypt, which should hopefully keep relations steady between them because in times of crisis (and I fully expect Egypt to be in more crisis), there will be no cross-border tension. I feel that a huge factor behind Israel and Saudi Arabia's intimate and friendly relations is that they don't share a border.