Says you. It's merely a coincidence that once India had erected an almost water tight fencing system along the LoC that militancy in the valley all but stopped? Nowadays most of the militants are being killed whilst trying to infiltrate IN to India and the few that are engaged in the Valley itself more often than not turn out to be from Pakistan, hmm.....how very peculiar.
Yes, of course, there is going to be a minority of Kashmiris that has issues with the status quo but it is not nearly as many as you would like to believe over there in Pakistan. Kashmiris are not nearly as stupid as you think, you really believe they can't see they are better off with the pluralist, economically thriving democracy that is India than with, well.........the mess that is Pakistan.
As with any other people in the world Kashmiris just want a healthy and comfortable existence, your govt, your nation is the only obstacle to this- FACT. By continuing to ferment trouble in the valley you are only showcasing your true colours....