'Is Singapore my home, daddy?'
"Is Singapore my home, daddy?"
A seemingly innocent question asked by my 4-year-old son.
Early Saturday morning, I brought him to Universal Studios Singapore at Sentosa. There was a performance by street dancers at the Sesame Street area.
It was a performance my son enjoyed. During a part of the performance, the dancers asked the audience which part of the world they came from. The dancer would announce the country followed by the audience response. Of the countries announced, there was a big response from the mainland Chinese, Philippines and Indians around.
Singapore was the last call. There were quite a few Singaporeans in the audience of course, but when Singapore was called out, most of them (me included), did not acknowledge the call, we just kept quiet.
After the performance ended and we walked away, my son asked me,"Is Singapore my home, Daddy?" A part of me died.
I wanted to tell him with all my heart, "Yes, of course! Thisis your home! You'll grow up here, work here, live here, get married and have kids here, and die here!"
But I couldn't... My brain reminded me that Singapore is a big business, a corporation. A place where Gross Domestic Product (GDP) is the KPI, a place where the elite live well while the poor suffer in silence, or be shamed if they voice out their discontent.
To anyone still reading at this point, let me tell you this: I'm an ordinary middle-income Singaporean. I work my way up the social and corporate ladder, have a Singaporean education, a Singaporean wife and all things Singaporean. I served my NS and completed my reservist, pay my income tax on time, and do the occasional volunteer/donation work at the neighbouring old folks home.
I work as hard as the guy next door, be they local or foreigner. My working hours are normal office hours (830am - 530pm) but on top of that, there are late night (sometimes as late as 12am), and early morning (as early as 7am) conference calls. My pay increment is minimal, not enough to even beat the yearly inflation, but I take these all in my stride. I don't grumble, I keep quiet, and I continue to work.
But some of my peers do not accept that. They quit, and what does the company do?
For every Singaporean worker that leaves, three foreigners come in to take his place. PMET positions, mind you. Not low-level positions.The whole mix in my company is around 30% local and 70% foreigner.
Many Singaporeans I see are becoming desperate now. The only job they can do is to drive taxis, be hawkers, small-time push cart business owners.
What about the jobs that are related to our education we spent almost17-20 years to get? They're all being snapped up by the so-called foreign "talents". "Talents" because they are not talents at all! They have totally unrelated educational background or working experience -- they do not know the terms and lingo in related fields. Some of them even have fake certificates.
The recent government policy calling for companies to place vacancies in the jobs bank for jobs under S$12,000 is not going to solve the problem as the selection criteria is still subjected to managers' own discretion. There is simply no way the government is able to influence the final selection of the candidate.
In my personal opinion, "hiring Singaporeans first" has to start from the heart and brain.
For a Singaporean hiring manager, he/she has to feel for fellow Singaporeans and make a sound decision to hire the best Singaporean in the selection process.
For non-Singaporean hiring manager, it is always compelling to hire their own country folk for emotional reasons but there has to be a thought process and confidence that Singaporean can also do the job. He/she has to know it is a MUST to consider Singaporeans first and hiring foreigners or people from his/her countries is the last resort.
And to answer the question asked by my son, I almost cried when I replied him, "Yes, this is our home, but only for now."
Mike Tan, 38
Technician
http://sg.news.**********/your-view---is-singapore-my-home--daddy---074813814.html
More interesting are the comments which followed... almost all unanimous and in one tone:
(go to the link for better reading of the comments .. I pasted the first ones, unformatted)
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Tricia • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
I am very ashamed to admit that I have the same sentiments. There is a lot of complains from bosses when our guys go for reservists. Our non Singaporean bosses staffs his department with people from the same country. I am a stranger in my own home.
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@Tricia - Needn't have to be ashamed of having such sentiment. Many local common folks also have the same feeling. That's say - those who have made us having such sentiment should be ashamed of their doings!
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Bukit • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
Straits Times should print this acticle on the first page on Sunday Times with the headline 'Is Singapore my home, daddy?'
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tan • 7 hours agoReport Abuse
if the govt don't take the locals seriously, we don't have to take them seriously too. just vote them out.
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Why Bother • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
We as a Singaporeans should ask ourselves! Is Singapore our home?! If yes, we should take charge and take care of our fellow citizens when the government is not acting!
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Charlene • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Really sad to hear that, i fully shared the same sentiments as Mike. Where are all the Singaporean? Why are our surrounding filled with "FI"? Dear Singaporean, please stand up for yourself & your loved ones... 7 Replies .
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Nigel • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
I wish to thank Yahoo for bringing this article to the social media that citizens may voice and express their grievances.
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Yongqin • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Well said, it really sadden me to see what Singapore is today under the Lee-dynasty.
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Justitia • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Mike Tan... I cried after reading your article.... because its true. Its true because its a fact. I feel sad that even a 4 year boy could sense it and ask such question... even I myself as an adult in my mid-40's asked myself the same question. IS SINGAPORE MY HOME ANYMORE ??? it all started with... More
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Lizardo • 7 hours agoReport Abuse
Sad sad sad... We're becoming refugees. 14 Replies .
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A Yahoo User • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
this is what i told my officer when i go reservist " Now i come reservist is because there is no war, but when there is war i will go back grab a weapon and run away from this country because this is already not my home" 7 Replies .
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Nes • 5 hours agoReport Abuse
Who created this mess???....who let the gate open???....who allowed all those influx to anyhow comes in???....even a 4 year old kid is feeling so stress now....
....................................SINKAPORE IS DOOMED......................................
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Wasu • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
Foreigners are now the owners of the country
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aristotle • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
So sad, so said... I'm crying now as I am a retiree in my 60s, having done NS in the pioneer batch.I cry for you, your son and my sons. And my country.
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JinDuLan • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
I have the same poignant sentiment. And we should let the government feel our indignation in the next GE.
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Watari • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
Singapore used to be our home. SOLD !!!! 2 Replies .
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Tessa • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
It is true. I felt exactly the same way. The PAP government has to do the control at the immigration gates and NOT after they come in. Once they are in, it is very difficult to get rid of them. Just like ant infestation, you have to control at the source and kill the ant queen. Spraying insecticide... More
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G-Man • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Just go stand outside ICA every morning and you will get the shock of your life! ICA is busy stamping PR's and Citizenships. Its like a conveyor belt of foreigners walking in for their PR's and Citizenships/ 6 years ago if you go to the citizenship counter at ICA it was like a ghost town and now... More
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The Unwanted • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Well said my true blue singaporeans.What our gvt and MOM had done?NOTHING for the past 20 yrs.our kids are the worst hit do we expect from Foreign company and the HR manager is a bloody FT.thank you 60% and pap WE will only put our hope in 2016.VOTE YOU OUT.
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Tham Wai Loon • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Dear Writer, I almost cry reading your article. Please hang on.. we have to fight.. we have to take back our home come 2016..
"Is Singapore my home, daddy?"
A seemingly innocent question asked by my 4-year-old son.
Early Saturday morning, I brought him to Universal Studios Singapore at Sentosa. There was a performance by street dancers at the Sesame Street area.
It was a performance my son enjoyed. During a part of the performance, the dancers asked the audience which part of the world they came from. The dancer would announce the country followed by the audience response. Of the countries announced, there was a big response from the mainland Chinese, Philippines and Indians around.
Singapore was the last call. There were quite a few Singaporeans in the audience of course, but when Singapore was called out, most of them (me included), did not acknowledge the call, we just kept quiet.
After the performance ended and we walked away, my son asked me,"Is Singapore my home, Daddy?" A part of me died.
I wanted to tell him with all my heart, "Yes, of course! Thisis your home! You'll grow up here, work here, live here, get married and have kids here, and die here!"
But I couldn't... My brain reminded me that Singapore is a big business, a corporation. A place where Gross Domestic Product (GDP) is the KPI, a place where the elite live well while the poor suffer in silence, or be shamed if they voice out their discontent.
To anyone still reading at this point, let me tell you this: I'm an ordinary middle-income Singaporean. I work my way up the social and corporate ladder, have a Singaporean education, a Singaporean wife and all things Singaporean. I served my NS and completed my reservist, pay my income tax on time, and do the occasional volunteer/donation work at the neighbouring old folks home.
I work as hard as the guy next door, be they local or foreigner. My working hours are normal office hours (830am - 530pm) but on top of that, there are late night (sometimes as late as 12am), and early morning (as early as 7am) conference calls. My pay increment is minimal, not enough to even beat the yearly inflation, but I take these all in my stride. I don't grumble, I keep quiet, and I continue to work.
But some of my peers do not accept that. They quit, and what does the company do?
For every Singaporean worker that leaves, three foreigners come in to take his place. PMET positions, mind you. Not low-level positions.The whole mix in my company is around 30% local and 70% foreigner.
Many Singaporeans I see are becoming desperate now. The only job they can do is to drive taxis, be hawkers, small-time push cart business owners.
What about the jobs that are related to our education we spent almost17-20 years to get? They're all being snapped up by the so-called foreign "talents". "Talents" because they are not talents at all! They have totally unrelated educational background or working experience -- they do not know the terms and lingo in related fields. Some of them even have fake certificates.
The recent government policy calling for companies to place vacancies in the jobs bank for jobs under S$12,000 is not going to solve the problem as the selection criteria is still subjected to managers' own discretion. There is simply no way the government is able to influence the final selection of the candidate.
In my personal opinion, "hiring Singaporeans first" has to start from the heart and brain.
For a Singaporean hiring manager, he/she has to feel for fellow Singaporeans and make a sound decision to hire the best Singaporean in the selection process.
For non-Singaporean hiring manager, it is always compelling to hire their own country folk for emotional reasons but there has to be a thought process and confidence that Singaporean can also do the job. He/she has to know it is a MUST to consider Singaporeans first and hiring foreigners or people from his/her countries is the last resort.
And to answer the question asked by my son, I almost cried when I replied him, "Yes, this is our home, but only for now."
Mike Tan, 38
Technician
http://sg.news.**********/your-view---is-singapore-my-home--daddy---074813814.html
More interesting are the comments which followed... almost all unanimous and in one tone:
(go to the link for better reading of the comments .. I pasted the first ones, unformatted)
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Tricia • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
I am very ashamed to admit that I have the same sentiments. There is a lot of complains from bosses when our guys go for reservists. Our non Singaporean bosses staffs his department with people from the same country. I am a stranger in my own home.
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@Tricia - Needn't have to be ashamed of having such sentiment. Many local common folks also have the same feeling. That's say - those who have made us having such sentiment should be ashamed of their doings!
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Bukit • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
Straits Times should print this acticle on the first page on Sunday Times with the headline 'Is Singapore my home, daddy?'
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tan • 7 hours agoReport Abuse
if the govt don't take the locals seriously, we don't have to take them seriously too. just vote them out.
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Why Bother • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
We as a Singaporeans should ask ourselves! Is Singapore our home?! If yes, we should take charge and take care of our fellow citizens when the government is not acting!
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Charlene • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Really sad to hear that, i fully shared the same sentiments as Mike. Where are all the Singaporean? Why are our surrounding filled with "FI"? Dear Singaporean, please stand up for yourself & your loved ones... 7 Replies .
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Nigel • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
I wish to thank Yahoo for bringing this article to the social media that citizens may voice and express their grievances.
Whether MIWs read and respond accordingly in the positive at this point in time has become UNIMPORTANT!!!... More
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Yongqin • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Well said, it really sadden me to see what Singapore is today under the Lee-dynasty.
... More
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Justitia • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Mike Tan... I cried after reading your article.... because its true. Its true because its a fact. I feel sad that even a 4 year boy could sense it and ask such question... even I myself as an adult in my mid-40's asked myself the same question. IS SINGAPORE MY HOME ANYMORE ??? it all started with... More
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Lizardo • 7 hours agoReport Abuse
Sad sad sad... We're becoming refugees. 14 Replies .
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A Yahoo User • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
this is what i told my officer when i go reservist " Now i come reservist is because there is no war, but when there is war i will go back grab a weapon and run away from this country because this is already not my home" 7 Replies .
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Nes • 5 hours agoReport Abuse
Who created this mess???....who let the gate open???....who allowed all those influx to anyhow comes in???....even a 4 year old kid is feeling so stress now....
....................................SINKAPORE IS DOOMED......................................
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Wasu • 3 hours agoReport Abuse
Foreigners are now the owners of the country
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aristotle • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
So sad, so said... I'm crying now as I am a retiree in my 60s, having done NS in the pioneer batch.I cry for you, your son and my sons. And my country.
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JinDuLan • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
I have the same poignant sentiment. And we should let the government feel our indignation in the next GE.
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Watari • 4 hours agoReport Abuse
Singapore used to be our home. SOLD !!!! 2 Replies .
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Tessa • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
It is true. I felt exactly the same way. The PAP government has to do the control at the immigration gates and NOT after they come in. Once they are in, it is very difficult to get rid of them. Just like ant infestation, you have to control at the source and kill the ant queen. Spraying insecticide... More
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G-Man • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Just go stand outside ICA every morning and you will get the shock of your life! ICA is busy stamping PR's and Citizenships. Its like a conveyor belt of foreigners walking in for their PR's and Citizenships/ 6 years ago if you go to the citizenship counter at ICA it was like a ghost town and now... More
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The Unwanted • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Well said my true blue singaporeans.What our gvt and MOM had done?NOTHING for the past 20 yrs.our kids are the worst hit do we expect from Foreign company and the HR manager is a bloody FT.thank you 60% and pap WE will only put our hope in 2016.VOTE YOU OUT.
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Tham Wai Loon • 6 hours agoReport Abuse
Dear Writer, I almost cry reading your article. Please hang on.. we have to fight.. we have to take back our home come 2016..