Is Attraction important?

[Zibago]

Do you think attraction is important and plays a role within a relationship/Marriage? Attraction can’t be confined to one singular view on looks and physical appearance, I’m discussing this as a plural term in a broader context relating to personality, mentality, character, nature and well being etc.

My personal opinion is yes, it is. I am so sorry but if anyone tells you it isn’t then that’s marshmallow. It is a lie. Its psychologically and logically proven.

There has to be some form of attraction otherwise it is difficult to sustain, but more importantly there has to be appreciation.

Attraction can be the way someone treats you, habits, personality, stimulates intellectually and mentality. Physical appearance is another added bonus on top and so is wealth.

If I was to link Faith into it then there are four reasons a Person can seek to consider and attraction is one of them. What form of attraction is totally up to the individual.

What’s your take on it?

Yes it does those who say it doesnot are liars

 

[Divergent]

LOL! If I could give a positive rating then you would have got one!

There’s a lot of posts I should get positive ratings for lol ;P

 

[Azadkashmir]

Girls are weird you can never know, what they are really attracted to.
What i do know is they are attracted to anything that is bad like some bad boy.
I am attracted to classy tight waist girl.

 

[Divergent]

Appreciation falls under what I clumsily categorised as "personality". I guess what I mean is the emotional side of a relationship holds great value - it's a definite deal breaker, but it's something that can be worked on. You can "learn" to change your behaviour or to be more accepting of anothers behaviour, but that pure animal attraction that makes your heart beat the moment you see someone - that can't be "built up".

I don't want you to think there is a definite priority of physical attraction over everything else but it is incredibly important - something sometimes people overlook.

Pure Animal attraction should just be Nikkahfied if it’s persistent lol

 

[El Sidd]

Pure Animal attraction should just be Nikkahfied if it’s persistent lol

That's some bull crap solution. Tobacco chewing lesbians are more creative than that.

Why do you want the state to witness or condone animalistic traits of people?

Nikkah is between consulting humans not animals.

 

[Divergent]

PDP was not created by me but by people of this forum who understood that there are cries will never be heard by established political parties in Pakistan.

Life is the name of ups and downs and it is your personal thing. If you will go to your grave alone you can survive a busy life here in this world as well.

Only naive people believe in this messianic cult known as Marriage !!

If attraction doesn’t play a role in Marriage then people start cheating and in the end that is not cool man, like if people aren’t happy in their Marriages work it out but stop decieving the other person or yourself. There is no excuse, leave or otherwise fix up.

Unfortunately such cases arise when a person is either pushed or goes into something without fully considering if its something they really want.

It’s the biggest decision of your life and if it means being stubborn to not give to family pressure then so be it. In the long run you’re doing them and yourself a favour. It’s not like they’re going to live your life for you.

That's some bull crap solution. Tobacco chewing lesbians are more creative than that.

Why do you want the state to witness or condone animalistic traits of people?

Nikkah is between consulting humans not animals.

I don’t think you got what I meant but hey ho

 

[livingdead]

is it not obvious.... physical attraction is the first thing that attracts people towards each other...

 

[El Sidd]

If attraction doesn’t play a role in Marriage then people start cheating and in the end that is not cool man, like if people aren’t happy in their Marriages work it out but stop decieving the other person or yourself. There is no excuse, leave otherwise fix up.

Unfortunately such cases arise when a person is either pushed or goes into something without fully considering if it something they really want.

It’s the biggest decision of your life and if it means being stubborn to not give to family pressure then so be it. In the long run you’re doing them and yourself a favour. It’s not like they’re going to live your life for you.

Men are cheaters by nature. They find it satisfying. Its animal instinct. Eastern cultures are quite strange. Men boast about their escapades while women cannot even by protest and is shamed.

Women are no better either mind you. They are systematically evil.

Look at the situation this way.

Adam ate the forbidden fruit.
Eve convinced him because Satan convinced her.

There in these two sentences lies world of knowledgeable between a relationship between man and woman based on religion or eastern cultures.

I think whales are smarter than humans they go by sound.

Like what the hell are people upto in Pakistan i have no clue. People put more effort in choosing the color of the new rug than their life partners.

Marriage for me should be banned temporarily till people can understand the concept. Otherwise a divorce epidemic is brewing in the society and i shit you not with our culture. Women are fucked by all understanding of the word.

I don’t think you got what I meant but hey ho

The other implied meaning was boring ankles...

 

[Divergent]

Is physical attraction important to Men or do they like a girl with a good head on her too *rolls eyes*

 

[El Sidd]

is it not obvious.... physical attraction is the first thing that attracts people towards each other...

There's a study that suggests smell does.

Yes it does those who say it doesnot are liars

So did Mehwish Hayat ever replied to you? I forgot to ask

 

[Corona]

Alright, I respect your point.
Just one last thing, marriage is important to keep the human race going, I think we can agree on that point.

We'll technically marriage is not necessary to keep the human race going..artificial insemination will take care of that.

 

[HannibalBarca]

Is physical attraction important to Men or do they like a girl with a good head on her too *rolls eyes*

Both choices are the same... both are based on physical appearance...

 

[Talwar e Pakistan]

Initially, yes; it does. But later on, it's importance rapidly fades away.

 

[Zibago]

So did Mehwish Hayat ever replied to you? I forgot to ask

Ye dariya aik disha hi bahey ga shayad

 

[Divergent]

Initially, yes; it does. But later on, it's importance rapidly fades away.

Because another form of attraction percedes

Both choices are the same... both are based on physical appearance...

For girls not so much