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maturity on mental and social ability won't be gained by practice , and f you want to let it be acquired after marriage , it will be gained when its too late.Underage is a legal notion. Mental and social readiness are there in young people, and they can furthermore be transmitted by parents, society, state. A lot of practical social skills are acquired on the go as well, through experience, through trial and error.
Divorce always is an acceptable solution as its acceptable in the holy book and hadith and our tradition.God dislikes it and therefore the Islamic government and Muslims must do what they can to direct people towards greater abnegation, patience and towards a mindset in which divorce is no longer considered an acceptable solution to trivial marital conflicts. Whether or not people think they have other options is eminently subjective and conditioned by culture.
and that everything they can do is a troublesome word , they can advice , they can counsel , they can solve problems . but barring it is against God guidance.
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and nobody promote it , but can you show it references , hadith and anything that say we must use force to bar people from it ? or allowed in extreme cases only ?I showed valid sources which make it clear that from an Islamic perspective, this is not something to be encouraged nor promoted, but rather to be considered an absolute last resort suited for extreme cases only. At the societal level, it should thus be the exception rather than the rule.
the government cant put limit on what is advised in holy bookNor any mention that the introduction of quotas is haram. When the phenomenon reaches unacceptable proportions, much to the displeasure of God, it is an Islamic government's obligation to counteract the trend.
so please don't rationalize a wrong
again where in Islam its such ?It's an Islamic regulation determined by Muslim clerics well versed in God's Law.
no its a man made law that is fixed years ago.
they areThey aren't.
not Islamic value , read the post againIslamic values, Islamic lifestyle are never going to be "dead". Generalization of divorce and questioning of the institution of marriage are anti-Islamic.
Economic considerations per se aren't a cause for divorce and don't need to be. Only when combined with individualist and materialist thinking will they have such an effect. Individualism and materialism are non-Islamic as well.
no one try to promote divorce among poor , I don't knew from where you get it , I clearly stated when they put quota on how many divorce can be made in a city , its bound to make mre trouble for the poor people who want too get a divorce than wealthy one . I don't go in detail because it will be dirty but if you insist i can be more clear on what will happenAll these considerations have a social dimension to them. Trying to promote divorce among the poor is an act of social engineering and akin to social pressure in its effects.
no having taught police , is dystopic , dictating to incompatible people they must live with each other is dystopic , barring people from doing what is their god given right is dystopicSo preventing the use of subterfuges intended to circumvent the law is to establish a "dystopic police state"? Quite an absurd reasoning that would be.
and again Majlis can't enter in something that determined by Fiqh and Quran . its irrelevant that it later must pass from Guardian council .Iran's political system ensures that legislation passed by Majles is verified as to its compatibility with Islamic law.
again blind support . Majlis was talking about passing a law that put quota on the number of divorce in each city can be made . it means if that quota is reached even if you met all the necessity to get a divorce you can't get it.If a couple fulfills all the legal conditions, then it will have no problem obtaining divorce inside Iran. If authorities refuse to meet their request, it means they do not legally qualify.
by the way what is the legal condition for getting a divorce ? the only condition in islam is the man and woman agree and a just person hold the cermony for it in front of two witness , is there any more condition for it that I'm not aware of ?