As soon as India drops its double standards and admits that support for ALL insurgencies is wrong, and condemns the policies of Indira Gandhi and India in 1971.
Till then, the implicit Indian position is that it sees covert and overt support for insurgencies in Pakistan as acceptable, and such an attitude cannot be the basis of removing mutual distrust.
The loss of life was precipitated by the Indian support for insurgents, and the atrocities by insurgents. Some of these atrocities were reported in the international press, and yet India continued to support rebels involved in those atrocities.
This is not a different solution, in essence it is the same thing - India supported insurgents/terrorists in East Pakistan because it saw a chance to damage Pakistan. Such double standards and blatant glorification of State support for terrorism, by India. must end if it wants is protestations on J&k to be considered legitimate.
1971 was four decades ago. Seriously, what are you expecting? an official apology from the GOI? what's that going to do, magically put an end to the insurgency in Kashmir?
The fact is that regardless of whatever happened in the past, today Pakistan finds itself as the epicenter of terrorism. Terrorists emanating from Pakistani soil can potentially spark a nuclear conflagration the result of which is understood all too well on both sides.
We've had this discussion before, finger pointing and grandstanding will lead us nowhere. We should focus on the situation at hand, not what our grandfathers were up to.
I believe India's primary focus should be its economy. I long for the day when India can once again emerge as a prosperous, respectable nation. At the same time, however, we can no longer ignore repeated attacks from across the border. Whether state sanctioned or not, innocents have been murdered, the economy derailed not to mention how the entire nation has been dishonored.
India should first and foremost strengthen its internal security.
Secondly, we've made it clear that we desire peace with Pakistan. India cannot render a nuclear armed nation of 180 million people irrelevant, therefore all efforts should be geared towards normalizing our relations.
Thirdly, as important as the economy is to our future, the state's primary responsibility is ensuring the safety of its citizens. This means we must defend ourselves the next time an Indian city goes up in flames, no matter the cost. We cannot allow terrorists to believe that they are permanently shielded from our wrath simply because of a line in the sand. We cannot allow Pakistan to believe, at any level, that extremist proxies are a viable strategic asset, or that it can adopt a 'passive' approach towards India centric terrorist organizations. As jingoistic as that may sound, I simply see no other alternative. Short term stability will do us no good if the threat of terrorism persists. We need to find a solution today, if we're to carry on tomorrow.
We need to make it clear that if Pakistan wishes to maintain a harmonious and mutually beneficial relationship with us (a pre-requisite to any resolution) it can ill afford to adopt a confrontational attitude. Kashmir, in any case, cannot be resolved militarily. Harboring insurgents/extremists will only make matters worse, as Pakistan maintains only a tenuous grip on such groups at best. God forbid, should they pull off another 26/11 one can hardly blame India if it chooses to cross the border. The ball is in Pakistan's court, confront the militants or get out of the way.
A decades old conflict isn't going to be resolved in a hurry, but the terrorism and the
ideology that fuels it needs to be terminated immediately. Long story short, we need a paradigm shift in Pakistan's Kashmir policy. I don't believe we could bring about the same simply by diplomatic overtures, the military option must remain open should push come to shove.
India has already indicated that its willing to work things out diplomatically, can you honestly say that has Pakistan abandoned its old policies?