No one is backstabbing anyone. Instead of "protesting or looking for a foreign policy", how about you grow your country, turn it into a peaceful, safe and economically strong country and the world will listen to you. Heck with $$$$ in large amounts in your reserves if you can grow your economy, you can do your own R&D.
Blaming everything on the US, India or the bogy man won't help. Its time you took responsibility for your internal failures and worked hard as a nation to have these strategic relationships. It takes hard work to get to where India is today, comments made with frustration won't get you anywhere. You can't host a one dish party all the time and bring your plate empty to the table, but expect the US or other partners to bring a full plate for you. You have to contribute to the globe too and that'll only happen if you become a safe, democratic and economically strong country.