When China and India can find a fair solution for border disputes, everything will become good. That does need wisdom and both two party have to compromise to each other in some areas. I think the major obstacles comes from domestic nationlism. I believe eventually the problem can be solved. China has sucessfully solved land border disputes with many countries, such as Russia, Kyrgyzstan and even Vietnam. Whatever land border problems are much easier to solve comparing to sea/iland disputes.
And I wish Pakistan and India can close their conflicts and set up a completely new, healthy relationship. SOC may provide a platform for two countries to contact and cooperate. It'll be a good start if both of them join the SOC. If so Asia can become more powerful and stand in a equal position when facing western alliance, such as NATO, FVEY.