You can start by telling your kids who is who,the Hindus,Christians and the Sunnis.
Whats the use? My family made the Decision ,They are leaving. I cannot take this mess anymore which the politicans and the sunni deoband ulema has made.If other shias have the resources they will leave also in the coming years or convert to sunni/hindu whichever faction is safer for them. Its already clear cut that UP is the same situation that Undivided Punjab was in the late 1930's.