It's simple - instead of hiding behind all these excuses of Pakistan withdrawing unilaterally and mumbo jumbo of India's own laws passed to justify it's own occupation (essentially the criminal passing laws to justify his/her crimes), just admit the truth, that Indians know in their hearts the reality that a majority of the residents of J&K WILL NOT choose India in a plebiscite, and that is why India does not want a plebiscite.
That is what I mean by being honest in your engagement with Pakistanis, instead of dancing around in circles trying to argue the minutiae of the UNSC Resolutions on J&K or the Simla Agreement.
@Joe Shearer
I'm going to address this to you as well, not because you fall in the category of
@ChennaiDude &
@IMARV, but because I think you're already at a point where you are honest with yourself and Pakistanis.
We can all be honest with ourselves and with the other side on what we believe & what we desire. All these circular arguments we have are pointless when we all know the TRUE motivations driving the positions on each side. Pakistanis support the UNSC Resolutions and a UN plebiscite because we believe the majority of residents of J&K will choose Pakistan. Indian's oppose the same because they believe that the majority will likely choose independence or Pakistan before choosing India.
Honesty with oneself and others brings respect, not this dance we do where everyone knows whats what but refuses to acknowledge it (as if such acknowledgement would change the status quo), which in turn only breeds contempt and loathing, especially in the context of something so emotional as the Jammu & Kashmir dispute.