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In Malaysia, I visited a mosque – In Pakistan, I can’t
By Dilaira Dubash Published: June 23, 2014


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Putra Mosque: Malaysia attracts tourists because you can explore the country freely, without having to camouflage yourself in the hues of a particular race, religion or caste. PHOTO: REUTERS

I am a Pakistani, but the first time I visited a mosque comfortably was in Malaysia. I was able to appreciate the house of worship without once feeling like an outsider, something I have never been able to do while living in Pakistan.

As a non-Muslim tourist in an Islamic country I felt liberated to reveal my identity to everyone, and I consciously did so just to relive that feeling again and again before I returned home.

In Malaysia, however, it is not until one utters ‘Assalamu alaikum’ can you gauge if they are Muslim. Although over 61.3% of the population are Muslims by law, the country has opted for a conscious uncoupling of religion from culture. With private and public lives clearly demarcated, nobody talks, dresses, breathes and broadcasts their faith in public. And it’s the country’s pulsating diversity of cultures that has become its asset for tourism.

While living in Pakistan, it is hard to even envision the peaceful coexistence of Hindus and Muslims, in Malaysia it is a palpable reality. The country celebrates a number of major Hindu festivals each year and thefestival of Thaipusam, the biggest after Deepavali, is actually a huge spectacle for which scores of Hindus fly in from around the world; this example of harmony is not evident ononly a few occasions, it is intricately woven into the very fabric of society. The annual ‘Colours of Malaysia’ festival, popularly known as Citrawarna, is a platform where different ethnic groups in the country come together to celebrate their unique culture with dance and music. And their display of solidarity is so overwhelming it can actually put any Pakistani to shame.

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Let alone a united Pakistan, can you, on your own, even imagine women participating in a dance parade dressed in a sari or shalwar kameez or a skirt in Pakistan?

But in Malaysia you can dress however you want without attracting any unwanted attention. You can go to a club and have a drink and nobody will judge or harass you because they respect the fact that everyone has a different set of beliefs and no one set of beliefs is better or truer than another.

“A bubbling, bustling melting-pot of races and religions where Malays, Indians, Chinese and many other ethnic groups live together in peace and harmony,” is how the country projects and promotes itself on its official tourism website.

It’s not the rainforest in Taman Negara, the sandy beaches in Pahang, the Petronas Twin Towers in Kuala Lumpur or other holiday ‘surprises’ with which they attract tourists, but the fact that you can explore the country freely, without having to camouflage yourself in the hues of a particular race, religion or caste. And the allure of multiculturalism is propelling the tourism market in the right direction as the country celebrates ‘Visit Malaysia Year 2014’ that is expected to boost their GDP by 6.8% to MYR168.9bn as reported by the World Travel & Tourism Council (WTTC). An industry which, if Pakistan does choose to give serious thought to, can hypothetically help reduce dependency on foreign assistance to a considerable extent.

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Photo: Dilaira Mondegarian

For the sake of many traditionalists who might argue that beneath Malaysia’s glittering ‘facade’ is a growing wave of disconnect from its Islamic roots and other Islamic nations, the country openly endorses itself as ‘Muslim-friendly’ holiday destination. An estimated 4.3 million Muslim tourists visited the country in 2013, and approximately six million more will be paying a visit this year, as pointed out Seri Mohamed Nazri Abdul Aziz, during a seminar in February.

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Photo: Dilaira Mondegarian

In fact, many non-Muslims who visit the country return home with spiritual enlightenment. At the Putra mosque, in Putrajaya, the tour guide claimed that some revisit Malaysia to convert to Islam, and this year, for the first time, a marriage ceremony will be performed at the mosque for one of the converts.

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Photo: Dilaira Mondegarian

Pakistan has a lot to learn from Malaysia’s cultural mosaic that has not only catapulted tourism in the country but also cemented its status worldwide as a Muslim-majority nation with a progressive outlook. And while we may still be light years away from mirroring Malaysia’s model for peace and tourism, I guess there is no harm in at least talking about the possibility of it for now.
 
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The hospitality among Pakistanis is legendary, and likewise in Malaysia, and pretty much all Muslim countries and peoples.

Pakistani mosques are one of the wonders of the world with their intricate art and spirituality. in sha Allah, I will start a thread for Mosques in Pakistan.
 
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From an outsider's view, I can see no need or obligation for Pakistan's Muslims to open their places of worship to tourists who do not hold the same respect for said places as their faithful do.
 
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From an outsider's view, I can see no need or obligation for Pakistan's Muslims to open their places of worship to tourists who do not hold the same respect for said places as their faithful do.

They are open, and 99% of tourists are good people. There is no reason to be cynical or paranoid about their behaviour for whatever reason. Muslims are the most hospitable people on earth. Our hospitality is legendary. To us a guest is a direct blessing from God, and we keep our doors open to serve food and drink In Pakistan Islamic art is an amalgamation of Persian + indian + Central Asian + Arab Kufic fine arts.

Its like Turkish mosques mixed with Persian fine art and with local themes from the Sub Continent and you get a unique Islamic architecture and feel that is prevalent in Pakistan. Pakistan is unique in itself.
 
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They are open, and 99% of tourists are good people. There is no reason to be cynical or paranoid about their behaviour for whatever reason. Muslims are the most hospitable people on earth. Our hospitality is legendary. To us a guest is a direct blessing from God, and we keep our doors open to serve food and drink In Pakistan Islamic art is an amalgamation of Persian + indian + Central Asian + Arab Kufic fine arts.

Its like Turkish mosques mixed with Persian fine art and with local themes from the Sub Continent and you get a unique Islamic architecture and feel that is prevalent in Pakistan. Pakistan is unique in itself.

That is very good info, thank you. That must a very positive and educational experience for visitors, and gracious of the hosts.

I guess my thought was that although it is very nice to be welcomed inside to view such a place as an outsider, it should in no way be expected or looked at as negative if there is no invitation.
 
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Even though the article is exaggerated (I've visited the Badshahi Mosque in Lahore with some Non-Muslims myself a couple of times); she is correct in saying that we need to be more pluralistic & more tolerant !
 
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That is very good info, thank you. That must a very positive and educational experience for visitors, and gracious of the hosts.

I guess my thought was that although it is very nice to be welcomed inside to view such a place as an outsider, it should in no way be expected or looked at as negative if there is no invitation.


A hindu can enter a mosque. There is no restriction. But Dilara has done injustice to Pakistan. Why? Because its not just the Hindu community who cannot enter mosques in Pakistan, it is even the Muslims!

There is lack of law and order, and terrorism is found all over the country. Muslims are frightened to pray in mosques in fear of an attack from unknown forces [ politics or terrorists ]. Not being able to wear a skirt on a street in Pakistan reflects the conservatism of the society there in general, and it should not be taken as a negative as not all places on earth are the same. There are societies where people are conservative, and Pakistan is a multi-religious place of different Islamic groups and religions, all of whom are conservative to this day, even the Hindu Pakistanis.

Malaysia has law and order on the street. Comparatively, Pakistan has much less. Every locality is ruled by local people and controlled because they fear the authorities. Elitism, casteism, feudalism, and extremists in the name of religion is what happens on the grand scale.

All of this will disappear if there is proper law and order in the country. Pakistan is not a small place. It is a big country.
 
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I played cricket with a buch of Christian friends and we used to go to Mosque together.Muslims would pray and these kids would do wudh'u and sit down quietly on the side wearing the same date tree leaf caps we all wear while praying.

Most Mosques in Pakistan are open to anyone, those which ain't are run by bigots.
 
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So the people ranting against the author of article confirm to me I will come out alive of laal masjid if I told them I was an Ahmadi after going in?
 
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In fact in ISLAM, Non MUSLIMS must be invited to ISLAMIC events and gatherings so that they can learn ISLAM and might become a MUSLIM, this is what ISLAM is, religion of NATURE. THE BASE, THE ELEMENT to keep the balance.
This guy might had a bad experience once and he took on his heart.
Very very amateur
When you go to the MASJID nobody cares if you are a MUSLIM or not
And this was a pathetic try to create hatred between the PAKISTANIS.
 
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Back in the 60s my uncles tell me there were no problems with extremism. Sunni and even ahmadis used to pray in each others mosques.
 
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Even though the article is exaggerated (I've visited the Badshahi Mosque in Lahore with some Non-Muslims myself a couple of times); she is correct in saying that we need to be more pluralistic & more tolerant !
Dude, I was not allowed inside the church in our school in Lahore despite sever attempts during recess to sneak in. These things happen all the times to everyone. My School was across from Railways HQ.
 
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Just because 1 Masjid didn't let her in doesn't mean all Masjid management is the same in Pakistan.If that's the case how are CNN journalists managing to take interviews inside Masjids.
 
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The same thing happened with me !
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my older family members wen to same school way before. They used to get "caned" for not reciting the christian prayer in the morning assembly! They said eventually they started to just move their lips to pretend. i mentioned this on here a few years ago and was basically called a liar !
 
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