Please...
Your government says you can have only one child and you complied with practically no resistance. Before the one-child policy was lifted, I met a Chinese couple when we were Micron employees in Idaho. I did not know them for long because we parted ways after a few months. They have a daughter and although they love her, they admitted disappointment that they did not have a son. I asked if being overseas gave them any exemption to the law and they said no. I did not know if that was true or not, or if they were misinformed or not. Maybe they were completely wrong. But that is not the point.
The point is how much intrusion into personal lives does your government get away with it because of your compliance to practically anything the Party says. Yes, I know about the over population reasoning. But your government did care about persuasion, only power. Birth control methods do have a failure rate, nothing is perfect, so my Chinese friends had to plan the intimacies of their married lives out of fear of what the Chinese government would do to them when they return to China.
So what is it like to grow up without a sibling, eh? Your generation is now the first Chinese generation to grow up without the actual experience of having extended families of uncles and aunts. Of course you have no idea how sad that is because you are in psychological compliance of whatever the Chinese government want to do
TO you. Not necessarily for you. I have a brother and sister in Florida. They are married with their own families. If I say to my brother-in-law 'I need you', he would cross CONUS the next day. Not to say my sister would do nothing. She would do the same. But that is the point -- that I have family ties that most Chinese in this generation will never know because of your government.
So no, you do not have as much control over the Chinese government as well as you think you do. When -- not if -- this Party affiliated app is made compulsory for all Chinese citizens, you
WILL comply. Resistance is (psychologically) futile.