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I was four the first time I was sexually abused: Actor Nadia Jamil

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I was four the first time I was sexually abused: Nadia Jamil
By Entertainment Desk
Published: January 14, 2018
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After the horrific Kasur incident, where an eight-year-old girl was found raped and murdered, many celebs came forward to voice their anguish over the matter.

Famed actor Nadia Jamil was one of the first ones to express their despair over the matter and called for justice on the terrifying incident.

Now, the actor herself has opened up about her own dreadful episodes of sexual abuse.

“I was four the first time I was abused sexually,” wrote Jamil on Twitter.
Nadia Jamil

✔@NJLahori


I was 4 the first time I was abused sexually. I was in college when it blew out of proportion.
People tell me not to talk to respect my families honour. Is my families honour packed in my body? I am a proud,strong,loving survivor. No shame on me or my kids. Only pride 4 being me

4:09 PM - Jan 13, 2018
She went on to add that it didn’t stop there. “I was in college when it blew out of proportion. People tell me not to talk to respect my family’s honour. Is my family’s honour packed in my body? I am a proud, strong, loving survivor. No shame on me or my kids. Only pride for being me,” added Jamil in the same tweet.

She went on to share the horrendous happenings and wrote, “When I sexually abused it was by my Kari Sahab, my Driver & then by a highly educated elite family’s son. Now, a happily married business man in London. It’s across the board. Men abuse across the board. My family still wants me to stay silent. But the shame IS NOT MINE! Never ever.”
Nadia Jamil

✔@NJLahori


When I sexually abused it ws by my Kari Sahab, my Driver & then by a highly educated elite families son. Now a happily married business man in London. It’s across the board. Men abuse across the board. My family still wants me to stay silent. But the shame IS NOT MINE! Never ever

4:07 PM - Jan 13, 2018

“Every time a child is sexually abused he/she is me. I will never shut up about it. & I will always say to the child, the child’s families, you, there is no shame for the abused survivor & we can help lead the to a joyful positive productive life. The shame is on the MEN who abuse,” added the actor.
Nadia Jamil

✔@NJLahori


Every time a child is sexually abused he/she is me. I will never shut up about it. & I will always say to the child, the child’s families, you, there is no shame for the abused survivor & we can help lead the to a joyful positive productive life. The shame is on the MEN who abuse

4:12 PM - Jan 13, 2018
In Jamil’s opinion, the only way to stop the abuse is to educate masses. “The cure is literacy, poverty alleviation and an empathetic education that counters all patriarchal, misogynistic discourse on women, womens bodies and male entitlement to sexual gratification for power. PLUS awareness and protection workshops for kids, schools, parents.”
Nadia Jamil

✔@NJLahori


The cure is literacy, poverty alleviation and an empathetic education that counters all patriarchal, misogynistic discourse on women, womens bodies & male entitlement to sexual gratification for power.
PLUS awareness & protection workshops 4 Kids, schools, parents! There is a way https://twitter.com/naveedrahman15r/status/952166414651097088 …

4:15 PM - Jan 13, 2018
She further urged women and victims to not feel shame while talking about their stories. “I only share it so more women & men who have been abused STOP feeling SHAME and see their is a light inside them Allah has kept burning. Shine it! There is a way out of the hell of humiliation & pain. We can make it out & up to a beautiful place of gratitude! Always! Shukar always!”
Nadia Jamil

✔@NJLahori


I only share it so more women & men who have been abused STOP feeling SHAME & see their is a light inside them Allah has kept burning. Shine it! There is a way out of the hell of humiliation & pain. We can make it out & up to a beautiful place of gratitude! Always! Shukar always! https://twitter.com/rabiaah77897238/status/952166778989400064 …

4:17 PM - Jan 13, 2018
Previously, many other celebs joined #JusticeForZainab protests.

Actors such as Faysal Quraishi, Mahira Khan and Shahzad Roy joined protesters at Press Club Karachi.

Qureshi said, “We have addressed a similar issue before. We have made various dramas about it as well. But here’s the thing…How can a five or six-year-old girl resist a grown man?”

He further added, “We are blaming the parents, blaming the issue and not being aware enough. But there is sound awareness regarding sexual abuse in American schools and it’s happen there as well. The only difference is that we see results there. Justice is served.”

Faysal Quraishi, Ayesha Omar and Nadia Hussain join #JusticForZainab protests in Karachi

The Raees starlet came forth and said that she wished a time would come when no one will have to come out on the streets demanding justice for any more such cases. “It’s high time we need to put this in our syllabus so that all the children get to know about it. The parents also need to be educated regarding sexual abuse,” said Khan.


Singer Shahzad Roy added that we need to change the social fabric of Pakistan. “We need to create a society where a child who has been abused can talk to their parents and they can take necessary steps to help the child instead of being in denial about it,” he said.
 
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Please if u are muslim or non muslim. Pakistani or non Pakistani. Living in Pakistan or outside. Please raise your voice in whatever way possible against this great evil. Pedophilia one of the most inhumane crimes against humanity. Please raise awareness in a responsible way. While preventing Anti Pak & Anti Islam elements to hijack this issue.

NO CHILD DESERVES THIS.
NO CHILD SHOULD HAVE TO LIVE THROUGH THIS HELL.
 
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I have 2 suggestions for this.

1- Capital punishments for child rapists, strict punishments for child molesters and abusers.
2- Ban of nudity on media i.e. advertisement industry, film industry, news channels and drama industry.

We have to take these steps first of all on war footings.
 
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What about police reforms, what about cojrt room reforms, education reforms, legislative reforms and executive reforms???

Somebody poke us with a knife...we put a band aid then wait for the next wound.

If I learned one thing from Taylor Swift is that band aids dont fix bullet holes, folks.
I have 2 suggestions for this.

1- Capital punishments for child rapists, strict punishments for child molesters and abusers.
2- Ban of nudity on media i.e. advertisement industry, film industry, news channels and drama industry.

We have to take these steps first of all on war footings.

But for this case specifically your suggestions are very relevant and should be taken into account.
 
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What about police reforms, what about cojrt room reforms, education reforms, legislative reforms and executive reforms???

Somebody poke us with a knife...we put a band aid then wait for the next wound.

If I learned one thing from Taylor Swift is that band aids dont fix bullet holes, folks.


But for this case specifically your suggestions are very relevant and should be taken into account.
Reforms should be done at all levels.. Majority from liberal brigade defended a child rapist and killer few years ago who was hanged in the end. They tried at every level to halt the orders of his execution. Same is the problem with thaykaydars of religion. They don't want us to discuss these issues with our children whereas the mullahs in seminaries are openly allowed to rape the children. Reform at every level is the need of hour.
 
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Don't let your children alone with any adult even with Qari Sahban, tutors etc

Educate children to protest and raise alarm against any abuse.

Encourage them to speak and never blame them for abuse since they are victims not culprits.
 
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Kon kare ga bai???
20-22 crore awaam divided by two. If bothe of these now divided groups work two shifts-day and night. And do anything possible to rally every resource. And then do anything possible (excluding arms resistance). On any level possible to prevent themselves from being oppressed. If nothing there must be SOME positive outcome,right???

There u go I just gave u a revolution. U can thank me later. Or maybe even make me President.

( I'm jokin but it's something to consider)
Reforms should be done at all levels.. Majority from liberal brigade defended a child rapist and killer few years ago who was hanged in the end. They tried at every level to halt the orders of his execution. Same is the problem with thaykaydars of religion. They don't want us to discuss these issues with our children whereas the mullahs in seminaries are openly allowed to rape the children. Reform at every level is the need of hour.
 
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Kudos to this brave woman, gives courage to others to speak out when it happens.
 
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I have 2 suggestions for this.

1- Capital punishments for child rapists, strict punishments for child molesters and abusers.
2- Ban of nudity on media i.e. advertisement industry, film industry, news channels and drama industry.

We have to take these steps first of all on war footings.

Your 2nd point is funny because of must of phedophiles are mullahs in madrassas.
 
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Reforms should be done at all levels.. Majority from liberal brigade defended a child rapist and killer few years ago who was hanged in the end. They tried at every level to halt the orders of his execution. Same is the problem with thaykaydars of religion. They don't want us to discuss these issues with our children whereas the mullahs in seminaries are openly allowed to rape the children. Reform at every level is the need of hour.

A liberal defended a child rapist ? Could you please refer to what event this was so I can drop my tag and go die in a ditch ?
 
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I have 2 suggestions for this.

1- Capital punishments for child rapists, strict punishments for child molesters and abusers.
2- Ban of nudity on media i.e. advertisement industry, film industry, news channels and drama industry.

We have to take these steps first of all on war footings.
In our assemblies the elected members are sick people , who has no important for human life or fellow human dignity. It is same situation , when Nawaz Shareef last week realized that Pakistan judicial system need overhauling . Its very expensive for " him" and what about poor people. After 35 years remain in power, he realized the system has lots of glitches.

These people run NGOs in the name of humanity and collect money and fame from foreign govts. They are not helping people of Pakistan.
 
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So the claim was that he raped and then murdered the child.
Did you forget the part which mentions he was underage ? Or the marks of torture on his body ? Or that the official charges against him were of INVOLUNTARY murder ?

The liberals are not claiming his innocence you genius they are protesting the laws and assumptions that he's being tried under such as the anti terrorism law (only applicable to adults), assumption of the defendants age (the complete investigation wasn't done and the only piece if evidence was turned down), the defendant having torture marks on his body (the family didn't even have enough money to hire a lawyer), him being given the death penalty for INVOLUNTARY murder.
 
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