How to deal with nosy relatives?

[Imran Khan]

Why they think we are weak and they are strong even though they fight you by staring with eyes or slaps. i explain to my uncle here it is fist fight yet he be like mikki bu jaan mai mari ura.
he lived here 15 years has 3 kids but cant read or speak english but thinks he is better than me.
yet my degree they will devalue it, yes it true I did no get a job in it but I work in the care sector, which i am now going to do a diploma level 3 in this sector. you cant win these ppl by having a inteligent calm debate.

you can only win if you have more money then them .

 

[Trango Towers]

Reading your post, you are quite aggressive yourself to other members on pdf.
Please tame yourself you're behaving like my uncle

Put the assh0le on ignore. I have. Let him bark. He is a loser for sure. He would get on well with your uncle. Cut from the same cloth

 

[Azadkashmir]

Put the assh0le on ignore. I have. Let him bark. He is a loser for sure. He would get on well with your uncle. Cut from the same cloth

You could be right, they can finger each others bum all day.

 

[JonAsad]

My khadan hates me loool.
You have shown from your language what a good little son you are..you are a clear cut loser and you single handedly have lowered this thread to the level of your family. You have no iman. No shame and you are jahil. Welcome to ignore.

You can sod off.. terrible excuse of a human being.. Your dad and mom should have done a better job raising a toff like you unless they are exactly like your chuffed ***.. which i don't doubt at all.. Ignore this dirty bog roll..

You could be right, they can finger each others bum all day.

You are one tosser agreeing with a punter like trango towers.. you both are classic winge class wonkey lasses... stop trying being a chav you could never be one in million janams. Bloody tosh..

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

@Azadkashmir I am praying for you my brother. in sha Allah you find the right way to navigate all this meas.

Never compromise your dignity for anyone else.

Don't let this paint a bad image of Pakistanis in your mind, please.

The whole world, we have only one country, remember.

Allah taala unko hidayat dey.

 

[Longhorn]

You can humiliate him

Just ask him the meaning of namaz...does he even know what he prays....that's my go to question when anyone starts talking islam to me. I say to them why is it that a denim wearing kaffir like me knows and your with your fat belly big ugly unkept beard and short salwar doesnt know. And then I keep at them because they want the subject to end or change and I keep it on why they dont know. It's so much fun.

5 times a day yiu repeat something without knowing what.
Why do you 9ray in arabic. You dont know it sk u might as well pray in chinese you dont know that either.
It's a lot of fun looool


Sorry bro...his parents are his mother and father. Mamu is mamu.

What is he proud of?
Ignorant because he is jahil.

You cannot apply civil behaviour with them. Let me use the word they refer to polite people in pakistan and apologise is advance..PHUDU

I've got a better way.
I've cut the whole bloody lot off.
Don't speak to any one my relatives in Pakistan.
Used to be quite close at one time. Found out the closer they were the more likely they were to try and take the piss.
Once bitten, twice shy.
Never again.

 

[Azadkashmir]

@Azadkashmir I am praying for you my brother. in sha Allah you find the right way to navigate all this meas.

Never compromise your dignity for anyone else.

Don't let this paint a bad image of Pakistanis in your mind, please.

The whole world, we have only one country, remember.

Allah taala unko hidayat dey.

Thanks, bro, inshallah you too have a good future.

You can sod off.. terrible excuse of a human being.. Your dad and mom should have done a better job raising a toff like you unless they are exactly like your chuffed ***.. which i don't doubt at all.. Ignore this dirty bog roll..


You are one tosser agreeing with a punter like trango towers.. you both are classic winge class wonkey lasses... stop trying being a chav you could never be one in million janams. Bloody tosh..

chav? lol haha, I don't wear trackies. Something not right with you, always hating, must be Saudis pushing you hard at work, maybe from behind.

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

chav? lol haha, I don't wear trackies. Something not right with you, always hating, must be Saudis pushing you hard at work, maybe from behind.

Chaddo. He is very aggressive always. Eid is time of peace, let's put down the hatchet.

Stay in peace brother. I hope a very special Eid for you. Remember after every difficulty is ease. I will personally make dua for you.

 

[Trango Towers]

What's interesting is most peoples experiences are identical. Extended families are shyte.

We have to listen to respect and obey our parents but not when they are clearly wrong. We must try to explain but some parent are beyond listening. They brought us into this world and did everything for us so use the emotional card to blackmail us
This is wrong even religiously wrong. We also have rights over our parents. It's a minefield we have ti tread carefully.
Good luck to everyone. No one is a slave. We are all free men. So choose your destiny wisely.

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

What's interesting is most peoples experiences are identical. Extended families are shyte.

We have to listen to respect and obey our parents but not when they are clearly wrong. We must try to explain but some parent are beyond listening. They brought us into this world and did everything for us so use the emotional card to blackmail us
This is wrong even religiously wrong. We also have rights over our parents. It's a minefield we have ti tread carefully.
Good luck to everyone. No one is a slave. We are all free men. So choose your destiny wisely.

Corruption in Pakistani society has reached the peak. Hardly koi banda milta he jo imandar he ya socha hovey. It is sign of qiyamat also.

Honestly Western society is not much better. Still atleast Pakistanis make effort to keep family system intact at some levels. Americans tho har banda bandi bhagora ey.

I think PTI brought back some Islamic morals back into society. I thank Dr. Shahid Masood and Orya Maqbool Jan who always try to defend good values in society. Maulana Tariq Jamil and Dr. Israr Ahmad lectures which are still changing lives for the better. Some of the foreign Imams like Dr. Zakir Naik and Mufti Menk who teach us good things.

Pakistan needs to have tazkiya, full washing of the heart and soul. We became such munafiqeen as a society.

In sha Allah, trend is heading towards good. I have hope, brothers and sisters.

 

[Verve]

if you bring azad k mangater even after about 15 years their backward mentality dont change and still dont speak English. I just had an argument for 30 mins, that how can we be related to Arabs. we have diff DNA even when I said I can provide sources but as typical backward Pakistani my uncle resorts to personal insults or cheap score by saying things like oh i got more than you, you don't pay tax, you only work few days (reason due to coronavirus )even though I do pay tax.
I explain million times I had an accident and due to injury I couldn't work due bedridden but mangater from the hills won't understand. this the mentality of our dangar ppl.

you cant tame them I personally think they jealous ppl. if you have immigrant uncles keep away they sell you out quick and cheap remarks.

Indians will have a field day playing wit this lot in Azad k.

The world is full of idiots. Do not let them get to you (as opposed to what's happened).

I have distant and not so distant relatives born and bred in UK that I avoid like plague. Their behaviour is worse than those currently in their ancestral villages in Pakistan in all honesty - the 70's villager mentality of probing every single thing and asking personal questions non stop is very much thriving in them!