How to change the life ?please advise

[Imran Khan]

i am so worred abut my daily life these days dears poor me i was better and good till 2005 after i got free hand from my father and mother and start play as i like today after 7 years i realize i need to change it . first of all my life is like a person in heaven in 2007 i get a nice job and work very well till 2009 i promoted and get a nice post . so after that i get car apartment and much more. now my life is like damn bor . i wake up as i like some time 8 some time 9 and sometime even 10 after i wake up my first action is watch the time and then push power switch of my laptop on side table of my bed . i check my mails defence.pk news before i go bathroom . then i move like master off AC fan on the lights go to bathroom take bath shave tooth pates come back wear uniform or some time i wear what i like . take the laptop on table sit few minutes some time 10-20 some 1 hour . as no one is there to ask me what time i come and what time i left.important is job done and i done it much early then expected .and then i move out . drive go office or sites .take breakfast if i like on the way .most of time sandwich with juice. i work few hour take lunch break at-2 or 3PM some times i can't work even damn after 2-3 and make lunch break full over and all and go back home . and some time i work or visit few places and 4-5pm i go back .after i come back i change and come to my bed keep lappy on my stomach and use it when tired keep it on side table if more tired go and sit on chair and keep it on table .till 8-9 pm and i watch out i have to eat dinner. i buy some time or some time make it for me if i like to be . its story of daily life again and again and again and again . days finish like minutes and months like hours . i done know whats this damn going on with me . i use daily 10-12 hours net and then sleep go work come back use net and sleep its like circle now i am getting little fat now even :. what you guys advise me to do (else marriage ) now for make my life little change damn i have nothing to do . no challenge no problems no tension no hard time no pressure not even damn i am getting sick :lol. i am now really bor month finish salary come i throw it in bank and forget and then again and again what the hell is this life man

how many hours should i use Internet ?
should i go for walk ?
what i have to do for damn little change?
what should do to keep me fit?
why life has no damn challenge now as before i feel?
as it is its harmful for me in future?

at the end please no fun i am serious today

 

[Imran Khan]

i try to writte whole deatils of daily life so its compleat pic now life isonly fun live like this its called stable life?no wishes mean i am now old enough ?

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ohh yes also no body come to me i live alone and not even damn some one knock my door even i die here lolz . its like king if i ask someone to come then someone come here otherwise after i come back i never face humans

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

i have nothing to do . no challenge no problems no tension no hard time no pressure not even damn i am getting sick :lol. i am now really bor month finish salary come i throw it in bank and forget and then again and again what the hell is this life man

Isaan kisi haal mein kush nhi why do you need hard time, tension, pressure You should be thankful that you are living a tention/pressure free life. Sometimes life can get a bit boring. And that's just the way it is. Find some activities and tasks to bring change in your daily routine. Boredom usually kicks in when we have finished doing a task that was required of us to do and donot know what to do next..

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ohh yes also no body come to me i live alone and not even damn some one knock my door even i die here lolz . its like king if i ask someone to come then someone come here otherwise after i come back i never face humans

Now that's a problem. You need to have social life. Something else beside work..kohe larki he pasa loo yaar kidding

 

[MilSpec]

1> get a gym membership

2> wake up early and go for a jog

3> learn cooking

4> make new friends

5> every week buy a novel or a book and go to some coffee shop to read it.Try different authors than you would usually read.

6> get a hobby like photography, hiking etc

7> try to learn an instrument, guitar keyboard or whtever you have always wanted to.

8> and get a girl friend

 

[Imran Khan]

Isaan kisi haal mein kush nhi why do you need hard time, tension, pressure You should be thankful that you are living a tention/pressure free life. Sometimes life can get a bit boring. And that's just the way it is. Find some activities and tasks to bring change your daily routine. Boredom usually kicks in when we have finished doing a task that was required of us to do and you donot know what to do next..

i was busy and in hard work and also as a challenge till 9 june 2009 after that day i am free and have nothing damn to do then just work 5-6 hours daily . no target as i reached where i want . no challenge as i have nothing left for me. no tension as every thing is fine me my company everyone is stable and have no problem .no hard feelings as i work nicely and only few times have problems which i solve with kind behave .now a days even when i look at face of my boss he has no feelings when i look employees have no feelings when i look my assistant he is same bore what the hell happen to this world ????

 

[livingdead]

i was busy and in hard work and also as a challenge till 9 june 2009 after that day i am free and have nothing damn to do then just work 5-6 hours daily . no target as i reached where i want . no challenge as i have nothing left for me. no tension as every thing is fine me my company everyone is stable and have no problem .no hard feelings as i work nicely and only few times have problems which i solve with kind behave .now a days even when i look at face of my boss he has no feelings when i look employees have no feelings when i look my assistant he is same bore what the hell happen to this world ????

That is the problem with your specific workplace. Some workplaces are boring and some are challenging.
Cant you change your job.?

 

[Imran Khan]

1> get a gym membership

2> wake up early and go for a jog

3> learn cooking

4> make new friends

5> every week buy a novel or a book and go to some coffee shop to read it.Try different authors than you would usually read.

6> get a hobby like photography, hiking etc

7> try to learn an instrument, guitar keyboard or whtever you have always wanted to.

8> and get a girl friend

1st one dear i am not going to do it as i can't move and now can't follow time

2nd where i go to jog here is no park or green places beach near our villa

3rd i know cooking dear

4th online or in real life? BTW from where i can get lolz in this city

5th i read so many books at this time the only waight in my room is my some 200+ books but after 2007 i stop them reading

6th what hobby dear ? i have camera so every day i go air port take pics?lolz

7th i better learn how to fight boxing ehhehe

8th gf? or meri originol ko koi or bana le gya tab ?

 

[nalandapride]

should i go for walk ?
what should do to keep me fit?

Better join a gym or don't have time for gym, then buy a treadmill and do jogging, can't afford treadmill then go for jogging in the morning or evening in the open place or street. Doing jogging thrice a week is sufficient. Run instead of walking.

Regarding food avoid red meat like Mutton or Beef and go for white meat like chicken or fish. I can't live without Mutton but I went for avoiding it. And if you thinking of dieting, then don't do that instead take food with high in protein and less fat and carbohydrate or take vegetables or fruits. Skipping meals will affect your metabolism and you may get further fatter.

If you won't look at your health now, you may face health problems when you will go 40+ most common of which is blood pressure.

 

[Imran Khan]

That is the problem with your specific workplace. Some workplaces are boring and some are challenging.
Cant you change your job.?

its because of multi culture dear .employees change but we are same. we have Saudi Syrian Egyptian Jordanian Indian Pakistani(only me) Nepali Philippians . but damn no any problem or war not even bloody office politics every one is treat me very nice and if some problem happen next day we forget it and start new day . some time even after 2 hours matter over

 

[Imran Khan]

ok one advise i like it i will start photography soon every week one trip i like it

 

[MilSpec]

1st one dear i am not going to do it as i can't move and now can't follow time

2nd where i go to jog here is no park or green places beach near our villa

3rd i know cooking dear

4th online or in real life? BTW from where i can get lolz in this city

5th i read so many books at this time the only waight in my room is my some 200+ books but after 2007 i stop them reading

6th what hobby dear ? i have camera so every day i go air port take pics?lolz

7th i better learn how to fight boxing ehhehe

8th gf? or meri originol ko koi or bana le gya tab ?

ok bhai .. sorry about the gf part.. original ko hi rakho..
i didn't understand by "you cant move".

as far as for staying fit, i would reccomend p90X program.
You said you have a camera and you go to the airport. how about trying something different, try different subject matter for you collections instead of aircrafts. might be fun ... just a suggestion.

learning boxing is not a bad idea. it will take care of all you fitness goals. i was a boxer when i was in engineering college in india and it was a lot of fun.

again for fitness, if you can cook , try to cook healthy, there are lots of benefits compared to restaurant food.

the most recent hobby i have taken to is shooting.

6 months ago i was going through similar routine life, i started playing beach volleyball and soccer seriously, now fitness regime takes a huge amount of time on weekdays, weekends are reserved for shooting.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

i was busy and in hard work and also as a challenge till 9 june 2009 after that day i am free and have nothing damn to do then just work 5-6 hours daily . no target as i reached where i want . no challenge as i have nothing left for me. no tension as every thing is fine me my company everyone is stable and have no problem .no hard feelings as i work nicely and only few times have problems which i solve with kind behave .now a days even when i look at face of my boss he has no feelings when i look employees have no feelings when i look my assistant he is same bore what the hell happen to this world ????

You have complain that you have nothing to do while i have complain that too much to do but no time

I think you need to change your daily routine. should have some friends to spend some time together on evening/ weekend. When you live abroad you miss social life in Pakistan. Are you happy and content with your career?

 

[Dalai Lama]

I know exactly how you feel bro.

 

[Imran Khan]

You have complain that you have nothing to do while i have complain that too much to do but no time

I think you need to change your daily routine. should have some friends to spend some time together on evening/ weekend. When you live abroad you miss social life in Pakistan. Are you happy and content with your career?

yes dear i should make them but from where heeheh no one come here .lolz

BTW i am more then happy i think i should have tears now ehehehh i have not a single problem in job and what i get more then i deserve .

 

[blackops]

Shadi karlo chacha jaan

Then you will have chalanges problems fights and what not

Ps pick up a sport work out goto pubs and bars make new friends get a membership of a club play snoker