High rates of Divorce in Pak society and esp in Military class

[messiach]

Hi Everyone @Oscar @Horus @Windjammer @Everyone else

I have recently seen four marriages dissolving and family going into disarray with destruction of family and children. This is all what i have seen in last one year. All have come from our military class and not the high officers class but from relatively decently educated middle grade young officers class. The divorce rates are already astonishingly high in civilian classes and that is all due to the 'faminine revolution' and rules being drafted in legislature giving females unprecedented rights in name of female liberty. Most certainly these females living with young officers are not oppressed, they come from good origins, have good education. They are not like the poor unducated class. This is bizzare and i was distressed with that. In one case, the female not only destroyed the life of the young man but also took away the children and now he has to present himself to court every month to meet his children. In this case, the female's father is a former brigadere and he has concieved several bogus charges against him in addition to divorce ( i say they are bogus, because i know the family for 25 years atleast).

This is all happened when we have embarked on dajjals feminist revolution and started drafting all kind of pro-female legalities and rules changing the balance between male and female as ordained by Allah SWT. I feel shattered to see this. We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

 

[Yaseen1]

mostly love marriages and secret marriages by running away from homes lead to divorces although there might be other causes

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

Sorry Ma'am its too late in Pakistan. U can see the growing number of 'feminists' in Aurat march displaying immoral Comments and wanting Vulgarity to become norm.

The education in elite institutions plus combined with Social Media is polluting the minds of young ppl who consider Man and Womam to be equal hence negating the social position of men and women. Women nowadays consider House work to be some kind of disgrace. They want all social evils which were prominent among men like smoking, hanging around late with friends etc. Ppl view West to be some kind of Progressive Social lifestyle where rights of all Genders are 'equal' which are not in Islam. These divorces do happen in West where couple get divorce without a need of compromise. Nevertheless, the bad condition of women in Rural areas and Crimes against Women(shown in media) makes Men look bad in front of women and thats how Liberals take advantage by polluting the minds of young innocent minds of Women against men

 

[Imran Khan]

Let them enjoy not our bussines

 

[Maarkhoor]

Hi Everyone @Oscar @Horus @Windjammer @Everyone else

I have recently seen four marriages dissolving and family going into disarray with destruction of family and children. This is all what i have seen in last one year. All have come from our military class and not the high officers class but from relatively decently educated middle grade young officers class. The divorce rates are already astonishingly high in civilian classes and that is all due to the 'faminine revolution' and rules being drafted in legislature giving females unprecedented rights in name of female liberty. Most certainly these females living with young officers are not oppressed, they come from good origins, have good education. They are not like the poor unducated class. This is bizzare and i was distressed with that. In one case, the female not only destroyed the life of the young man but also took away the children and now he has to present himself to court every month to meet his children. In this case, the female's father is a former brigadere and he has concieved several bogus charges against him in addition to divorce ( i say they are bogus, because i know the family for 25 years atleast).

This is all happened when we have embarked on dajjals feminist revolution and started drafting all kind of pro-female legalities and rules changing the balance between male and female as ordained by Allah SWT. I feel shattered to see this. We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

Your observation is quite correct but I must say not only military class but also civilian families see the rise of feminism and divorce.

Our old grandparents are correct when they say Aurat ghar k andhar hi achi lagti hai....

Regards,

 

[k s ahmed]

Feminism is just one side of the story.
When some. Is financially independent or has strong financial background , she didn't tolerate any sorry of abuse. Else sural waley are ready to kill the girl in our society. Hence she leaves. Whih is quite right. She doesn't take any shit. Pakistani men can be really horrible thick heads.

Feminism has gone wrong and we don't need it. But respect for women , yes we need that

 

[War Thunder]

Hi Everyone @Oscar @Horus @Windjammer @Everyone else

I have recently seen four marriages dissolving and family going into disarray with destruction of family and children. This is all what i have seen in last one year. All have come from our military class and not the high officers class but from relatively decently educated middle grade young officers class. The divorce rates are already astonishingly high in civilian classes and that is all due to the 'faminine revolution' and rules being drafted in legislature giving females unprecedented rights in name of female liberty. Most certainly these females living with young officers are not oppressed, they come from good origins, have good education. They are not like the poor unducated class. This is bizzare and i was distressed with that. In one case, the female not only destroyed the life of the young man but also took away the children and now he has to present himself to court every month to meet his children. In this case, the female's father is a former brigadere and he has concieved several bogus charges against him in addition to divorce ( i say they are bogus, because i know the family for 25 years atleast).

This is all happened when we have embarked on dajjals feminist revolution and started drafting all kind of pro-female legalities and rules changing the balance between male and female as ordained by Allah SWT. I feel shattered to see this. We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

The first and foremost thing is most of these marriages are based on fitnah and not Islamic principles. Islam has clearly warned of fitnah for marriages that are not done in an Islamic way, but who cares?
Except life is torn but who is there to blame their own ignorance to something Allah has clearly told them to avoid fitnah in their lives?

Then most of these husbands and wives have no clue on what's their rights and obligations as a spouse based on Islam.
Most of them don't even pick a spouse based on Islamic principles and criteria but just choose whoever looks fine and is known and all.
What do you expect to be the outcome?
How many of these women understand Islam and choose a husband who is righteous and God fearing? How many men? Then why will they not get disappointed? Why will their marriage that was more of a fashion show and defying Allah and will not result in trouble?

The close relative you talk of. You know his side of the story. Have you ever sat and asked the wife to tell her side of the story. Maybe your guy is more at fault?
But who in our society is willing to take responsibility, accountability and accept own fault?
Men and women are supposed to be garments of each other (married couple), yet how many discuss their husbands and wives with others?


These are all the causes, and till these people fix themselves, it will continue to happen.
Military or no military does not matter.

 

[pakpride00090]

Hi Everyone @Oscar @Horus @Windjammer @Everyone else

I have recently seen four marriages dissolving and family going into disarray with destruction of family and children. This is all what i have seen in last one year. All have come from our military class and not the high officers class but from relatively decently educated middle grade young officers class. The divorce rates are already astonishingly high in civilian classes and that is all due to the 'faminine revolution' and rules being drafted in legislature giving females unprecedented rights in name of female liberty. Most certainly these females living with young officers are not oppressed, they come from good origins, have good education. They are not like the poor unducated class. This is bizzare and i was distressed with that. In one case, the female not only destroyed the life of the young man but also took away the children and now he has to present himself to court every month to meet his children. In this case, the female's father is a former brigadere and he has concieved several bogus charges against him in addition to divorce ( i say they are bogus, because i know the family for 25 years atleast).

This is all happened when we have embarked on dajjals feminist revolution and started drafting all kind of pro-female legalities and rules changing the balance between male and female as ordained by Allah SWT. I feel shattered to see this. We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

Too late now... Feminism has now going to be dominant force in Pakistan..

That is why people should be careful of what they wish for.

 

[KapitaanAli]

You're blaming "feminine revolution" instead of corrupt authorities who can't provide justice and men who can't recognise a woman's character.

Western feminism should die, but South Asia isn't the West. We need women empowerment. We just need similar punishment to women and her family (in most cases it's the family at fault) who make false claims.

You see, not giving "unprecedented rights" to women is the easy way out. Without a doubt, it'll bring stability and calm to many families, but it's not the right way. It's a different thing if a woman doesn't want many rights in a marriage.

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

When some. Is financially independent or has strong financial background , she didn't tolerate any sorry of abuse. Else sural waley are ready to kill the girl in our society

Happens but not always. Many don't compromise hence the high divorce rates

 

[War Thunder]

You're blaming "feminine revolution" instead of corrupt authorities who can't provide justice and men who can't recognise a woman's character.

South Asia isn't the West. We need women empowerment. We just need similar punishment to women and her family (in most cases it's the family at fault) who make false claims.

You see, not giving "unprecedented rights" to women is the easy way out. Without a doubt, it'll bring stability and calm to many families, but it's not the right way. It's a different thing if a woman doesn't want many rights in a marriage.

They are blaming feminine revolution because they lack understanding of Islam and so do the women.
There won't be a need for any revolution if Islam was known and practiced and followed as a way of life.

But ignorance is too widespread in our society.

 

[pakpride00090]

You're blaming "feminine revolution" instead of corrupt authorities who can't provide justice and men who can't recognise a woman's character.

South Asia isn't the West. We need women empowerment. We just need similar punishment to women and her family (in most cases it's the family at fault) who make false claims.

You see, not giving "unprecedented rights" to women is the easy way out. Without a doubt, it'll bring stability and calm to many families, but it's not the right way. It's a different thing if a woman doesn't want many rights in a marriage.

Indians should not post their opinion over here. Unlike Pakistan , India is a the rape capital of the world and has no rights.

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

Islam has given the right to females to go about their business and travel outside when they have to

Nai sir itni ziada ijazat nahi hai

 

[War Thunder]

Nai sir itni ziada ijazat nahi hai

Kya ijjazat nhi hai sir. Zara explain karein.

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

society is flawed to project men as superior.

What society? Only men are chosen Prophets. Only men were four righty guided caliphs. Only men are allowed to become Caliph. Only Men are allowed to lead prayers for both Genders. Only men are allowed to marry 4. Only men can divorce thier wives anytime they want