Oh please, not every example suits the discussion. And i'm sorry to say, that's a gross and retarded example. Explains about your mental being.
Now let me give you a good example. A teacher kicks student out of the class. The student says "I never got to finish my class, how can I prove I'm good." So the teacher lets him finish the class. In the end, the student still is a failure. Now it is he, the student, to blame, not the teacher. So people won't buy his lie anymore.
Again, this example is not 100% suitable, but it is much better than your gross shit that you spewed here.