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Lahore, Pakistan
Thursday, June 2, 2011
From: Dannyandsarah
Pakistani's are some of the friendliest people!:
We're just about to hop on a bus from Lahore up to 'Pindi (Rawalpindi), and in the 20 hours we've been here we've met many friendly people. The person photocopying our passports wouldn't accept money, and even gave us a pen for free. People stop us and offer tea or chai, everyone wants to shake my hand, and Sarah even had people with a flower stand stop her to give her flowers for free! Sarah isn't too into the head scarf and traditional shirt it's best for her to wear, as expected, but overall people are very respectful, friendly, and happy to help us or just say hello as we pass.
The biggest discomfort here is the very different customs. Unfortunately it's a society terribly oppressive to women - there are very few women on the streets compared to men, some who are out are totally covered or at minimum wearing a head scarf over the crown of their head as Sarah is wearing, and everyone addresses me instead of Sarah - to the point that they will ask me a question about her such as her profession. And this of course is just the very surface level things which are an indicator for much deeper things.
It feels very different here than in India - much cleaner, more "developed" for the most part, as in wide streets, decorative trees, terribly large ads and billboards, and "nicer" cars on the roads. English is also much less common here, and in a lot of ways it feels like China did for us 6 months ago - the language is hard, we have NO idea what is going on, and the local customs are much different than at home so we are trying hard not to be offensive. So far we are just in one of the most major cities, so I expect things to change a lot once we get to explore further.
Pakistani's are some of the friendliest people! - Lahore, Pakistan Travel Blog
Lahore, Pakistan
Thursday, June 2, 2011
From: Dannyandsarah
Pakistani's are some of the friendliest people!:
We're just about to hop on a bus from Lahore up to 'Pindi (Rawalpindi), and in the 20 hours we've been here we've met many friendly people. The person photocopying our passports wouldn't accept money, and even gave us a pen for free. People stop us and offer tea or chai, everyone wants to shake my hand, and Sarah even had people with a flower stand stop her to give her flowers for free! Sarah isn't too into the head scarf and traditional shirt it's best for her to wear, as expected, but overall people are very respectful, friendly, and happy to help us or just say hello as we pass.
The biggest discomfort here is the very different customs. Unfortunately it's a society terribly oppressive to women - there are very few women on the streets compared to men, some who are out are totally covered or at minimum wearing a head scarf over the crown of their head as Sarah is wearing, and everyone addresses me instead of Sarah - to the point that they will ask me a question about her such as her profession. And this of course is just the very surface level things which are an indicator for much deeper things.
It feels very different here than in India - much cleaner, more "developed" for the most part, as in wide streets, decorative trees, terribly large ads and billboards, and "nicer" cars on the roads. English is also much less common here, and in a lot of ways it feels like China did for us 6 months ago - the language is hard, we have NO idea what is going on, and the local customs are much different than at home so we are trying hard not to be offensive. So far we are just in one of the most major cities, so I expect things to change a lot once we get to explore further.
Pakistani's are some of the friendliest people! - Lahore, Pakistan Travel Blog