Sir what he said was:
"ohh please, learn to introspect sometimes atleast, blame the " Foreign hand " and never look at what your doing wrong in the first place."
Sure, his tone might have been a little provocative but I certainly didn't interpret that as him "implying that it must be your own problem."
Basically what I gleaned from his comment was that you mustn't jump to blame others for your problems. You must try to keep an open mind as to what might be causing the problem.
Wouldn't you agree?
Regarding India, the West and what desiman has posted before: I don't quite see how this fits into your argument. Sounds like a rant to me.
Anyway mate, forget about this whole business of interpretation. I am interpreting it based on my experience but who cares, it's no big deal.
Regarding this whole business of introspection, let me tell you what we know. It's not relevant whether you think it's true or not, but it relates to why some believe what they believe. We have insider ISI and army information that confirms that India is heavily involved in supporting terrorist groups in FATA and other areas. What is happening is that the US is pressuring us to not to publicly release any evidence of Indian involvement as it will have an affect on WoT. So therefore some blame India while at the same time blaming the government for not doing anything about it.