Feminism- the root cause of divorces in Pakistan?

[Lincoln]

More than "feminism," I think the main cause is that women are more independent now.

They don't have the need to rely on male members, they also have degrees and skills in current age.

So with that, of course they feel easier to divorce someone. It's a bad consequence of a good thing.

 

[Fawadqasim1]

domestic valiance and abuse of females is major cause of divorce

Haq hay sir

 

[Trango Towers]

A woman, running a famous marriage bureau in Karachi, accuses young women in a liveshow and claims 'Feminism' to be a cause of large number of divorces in Pakistan.
Source: 92 News

Her divorce...effing ugly

 

[TruthSeeker]

I have observed the changes in American culture for the past 50 years (I am 74 years old now). I conclude that the basic societal problem is that you cannot have personal freedom to do as you please without having, at the same time, a strong commitment to not harming others, or your society, with your behavior. In the USA, and, perhaps to a lesser degree, in most European cultures today, a great amount of new "individual freedom" has developed over the past 50 years, but a matching greater commitment to being responsible to and for others has not developed. The threads of traditional morality, which in the past constrained individual excess, have been broken in the pursuit of freedom. Traditional morality, mostly formed and supported by Christian biblical teachings in the USA, has been shattered, and no comparable individual personal morality has replaced it. Hence, American culture is descending into narcissism:

nar·cis·sism
noun

1. excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one's physical appearance.
   synonyms: vanity, self-love, self-admiration, self-adulation, self-absorption, self-obsession, conceit, self-conceit, self-centredness, self-regard, egotism, egoism, egocentricity, egomania
   
   • PSYCHOLOGY
     selfishness, involving a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and a need for admiration, as characterizing a personality type.
   • PSYCHOANALYSIS
     self-centeredness arising from failure to distinguish the self from external objects, either in very young babies or as a feature of mental disorder.

Note that Donald Trump is the epitome of a narcissist. The "morality" he personifies shows the result of having too much self-absorbed freedom, without enough co-concomitant responsibility to others.

 

[Jf Thunder]

not really
women are now being educated to not take the sh*t that her husband and her in laws give her, in the garb of "guzara and compromise"
and that frankly, is a good thing

 

[Wrath]

You quoted right thing man.

Girls need to remember , they can win their husbands heart more easily if they don't try to dominate them ,,, this will happen in 5 years of their marriage life , then husband will be theirs...….. But even after doing that don't try to dominate family-in-law..... and rest I also said few things about girl and her mother mentality in one post above....
Remember "what goes around comes around" ...…. Be a faithful , friendly and lovely wife to your husband .. Then he will be yours …

 

[litman]

I have no interest in this vile topic of marriage.

You must have a pretty good life and satisfaction about Kashmir to make such threads in the first place.

be careful with the words you use regarding the sunnah of the Prophet and the relation which brought you in this world.

 

[El Sidd]

be careful with the words you use regarding the sunnah of the Prophet and the relation which brought you in this world.

the phenomenon you are referring to is called HOLY MATRIMONY and not Marriage.

So please keep your lynch pheromone levels to a minimum.

 

[CHACHA"G"]

domestic valiance and abuse of females is major cause of divorce

One of the reason ……. And Imran if you look closely "Women" are actively involve in all those crimes , their faces are Wife (Bahoo) , Sass(Both side Mother -in-law) , Nanned and Sali (both sides sisters-in-law ) , Jathani and Darani , then Phopho , Khala , Tayi and Chachi …………..

 

[Pakhtoon yum]

A woman, running a famous marriage bureau in Karachi, accuses young women in a liveshow and claims 'Feminism' to be a cause of large number of divorces in Pakistan.
Source: 92 News

No, there are foreign NGOs walking around and teaching women their "rights" but they are not teaching them their rights but how to break their own homes. Why hasn't the government done anything about that?

 

[litman]

muslims in sub continent remained ignorant about the instructions given on marriage in Quran just like any other topic. they learned through their culture which after living with hindus for centuries got massively corrupted. previously and even today girls are told at the time of their marriage that "beti shohar k ghar say nikalna to sirf mar ker he nikalna". men misused and still misuse their authority but women had to live in misery with their husbands. today women are educated and they can think about themselves and they dont tolerate the abuse they receive at the hands of their husbands and mothers in law. so the divorce rate increase.
having said that in an ideal islamic family system husband has been given slightly more authority due to his responsibility towards his family. but liberal women are not ready to accept that.
thirdly with increasing materialism in the society both men and women are more career and wealth oriented so they prefer their careers over the peace of their family life. they dont get enough time for their kids and even for each other.

 

[Imran Khan]

One of the reason ……. And Imran if you look closely "Women" are actively involve in all those crimes , their faces are Wife (Bahoo) , Sass(Both side Mother -in-law) , Nanned and Sali (both sides sisters-in-law ) , Jathani and Darani , then Phopho , Khala , Tayi and Chachi …………..

yes i agree with you sir

 

[CHACHA"G"]

not really
women are now being educated to not take the sh*t that her husband and her in laws give her, in the garb of "guzara and compromise"
and that frankly, is a good thing

And the same girl take all that (what you call as shit) in her own house , as daughter ,sister and as sister-in-law(Nannend) she never forget and let go one chance returning the favour to her Bhabhi(again a girl "newly married")…… Sir g, it is all about women by women for women ……..

 

[litman]

according to a hadith the last group that will follow dajjal will be the women. muslims will put them in chains to keep them away from dajjal but they will break the chians and will follow him. now chains here means restrictions as no women can break chains made of iron. the women will break up all the restrictions and will follow him.
remember dajjal is not a hooligan of MQM who steals your money at gun point. he is an evil genious. he presents a logic and system that attracts us and we fall prey to his evil designs. the modern day system attracts women a lot . our society will become western society atleast in major cities and situation is going to get worse. we will see lot more divorces ,lot more kids with no parental guidance whose minds will be easily controlled through media and education system and their ability of free thinking will be taken away. today humans are living in the worst mess and the more unfortunate part of the story is that we like to live like that. completely blind folded of the reality. it is similar to the movie matrix.

 

[B.K.N]

If some woman don't wants to live with her husband or husband don't wants to live with her wife that's their personal matter why it's being discussed here
Developed countries have higher divorce rate and poor countries have lower it means it's good thing Pakistan is going in right direction