YOUR FAUJ IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF ALMOST ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS.
The thing is, though, that you find it easier to lie til you go blue and defend that fauj instead of rectifying it.
The root cause of any democracy to fail is that the democratic institutions have been, along the years, been allowed to fail and finally perish.
When democratic institutions crumble, to prevent anarchy, the military intervenes and brings some sort of an order into society and hence is seen as a saviour. Average citizens are not amenable to chaotic and more importantly, unpredictable conditions in their daily lives.
The Army, no matter which Army of the world, does not tolerate distractions to the Aim. The build structures that are akin to totalitarianism, but keep a façade of democracy so as to be acceptable to the international community. They because of their way of functioning, disable all democratic institutions.
Democratic institutions slowly return, but it takes time.
One can check this out with any country that has had a military coup.
The current anger in Pakistan that you notice even on this thread after the OBL raid, is because, as it appears on this forum, people have very little faith in their government and now that even the institutions that they have had some faith in i.e. the Army, Navy and Sir Force and the ISI, are appearing to have failed, there is serious consternation.
That is why Jehangir is ferocious on one hand with a point of view, and then there are the others who are on the other side of the opinion spectrum i.e. the Armed Forces are doing well and should not be criticised, because these people find it very frightening to believe that the last bastion of hope is not quite delivering!
I presume in such a time of national 'crisis', if one can call it so for the want of a better word, one should not get too worked up, if people of that country show anger from either side of the opinion spectrum.
I am sure any citizen of any country placed in Pakistan's condition, would do the same.